I’m in the BSN program and when I started my program, I didn’t really pay too much attention to my grades because I’ve always been the “as long as im passing” kinda girl. But then I almost failed but got lucky i guess. So I changed my habits and began studying more and became more active in class. I think this surprised most of my classmates because I was a little quiet when we started.
I’m never the confident person but somehow being attentive in class and answering my teacher’s questions gave me confidence but at the same time, i started to notice my classmates talking about me.
I have a few mental health issues this kind of stuff gives me too much anxiety that i can’t focus anymore.
Any advices?
Remember that you aren’t there to make friends or be liked. You are paying A LOT of money to learn about nursing and wasting time worried about them is wasting money. Laugh about the fact that if they put as much effort into being concerned about your hard work that they could achieve grades like yours too.
With your new found confidence you could also kill them kindness. Start being more outgoing and friendly. Be hard to hate by being friendly. If they’re still talking or being mean, now you can know that’s it’s 100% them and not you. Some people are just hateful and you’ll encounter them all of your life.