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Starting the new year with reconciliation. Disclaimer: Christian perspective.
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For my part, I decided to focus on myself. I started a prayer journal and have been relatively consistent in my prayer life. I also started eating healthier and exercising. Additionally, I am going to counseling. I was recently diagnosed with PTSD and severe anxiety. I had no idea about these things, but it's made a difference to finally know what's happening. Of course, I never stopped doing the things I would normally do in the marriage. I serve my wife in the little and big things. If I need to hire someone to make needed repairs in our house, despite my own hesitancy, I do it. If she wants me to make her some tea when I'm already in bed and ready to go to sleep, I do it. I'm always asking her if there's anything she needs. Even when we were separated, I did these things because I wasn't going to change who I am at my core. I'm also attempting to communicate more, which for me, is harder than it sounds.
On her part, she's being more intentional in expressing gratitude for the things I do for her. She's also in counseling, has been more affectionate, which is something I've needed for a long time. It's still far from perfect, but I'm settling for better because I know she's trying.
Thank you, and I'm glad things are improving for y'all!