Potsies who are married/have a long term partner - how often do you voice your pain?

I'm in the process of getting my official diagnosis, even though my cardiologist is already 100% convinced I have it.

I'm curious how often people are voicing their pain to their significant other. I think that there is a battle between wanting to have emotional support when you feel the symptoms, but also not wanting to complain so often that it just envelops your relationship and you're just complaining 24/7. So I'm curious, how often are you guys saying something? Even just offhanded comments. Are you holding back? Do you always go into detail or just say one thing about "Pots is acting up". Just want to know how others are handling this within their relationships.

Thanks!!!