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To all my fellow bros out there, kung may drink responsibly, may kantot responsibly din. Wag puro sundot lang mga tol, isipin nyo rin ang possibility na mabubuntis ang partner nyo lalo na pag unprotected.
Ako kahit gumagamit ako ng protection at tinataon kung kelan unfertile ang partner ko, kabado pa rin ako e. Wag lang condom at pineapple juice combo pack bilhin mo, isama mo na ang plan b.
Kung di mo kayang gawin yan, magkamay ka na lang muna. Isipin mong mabuti magiging buhay ng partner mo
Virtual hugs to you OP. Wag mo isipin yung iisipin ng ibang tao. There is nothing wrong with what you did. Alam mo yung mali? Mali yung iluluwal mo anak mo na hindi ka mentally, emotionally, and financially prepared.
Tingnan mo yung mga mahihirap, anak nang anak, di iniisip magiging buhay ng kanilang anak. Tapos gagawin nilang investment mga anak.
I agree kahit sino sa allied sciences basic knowledge na yan heck high school pa nga lang e
noong lumabas si baby ko hinawakan pa niya kamay ko. At first I don’t want to give up on him. maniwala man kayo o hindi, limang OB napuntahan ko, puno ng ultrasound yung booklet and envelope ko. limang OB dahil mahina kapit, sinabi noong unang OB ko na wala ng pag asa si Baby. nasa pinaka baba na siya ng matres ko and naka open na cervix ko ng 2cm that time. they want to confine me that will cost 30,000 every night. every day I had to take 6 medicine. duphaston, progesterone and vitamins. kaya lumipat ako. Lilipat ulit kapag namamahalan ako.
There’s this time while working bumagsak ako sa hilo at natamaan balakang ko. nag pa check up agad ako knowing na I might hurt my baby. lumabas sa ultrasound na nag ccontract na si baby. Alam kong lumalaban din baby ko.
I talked to my baby na hindi ko na kaya lahat, hindi ko masisisi boyfriend ko kasi he gave every last of his money. Hindi lang sapat. Hindi sila mayaman. Hindi rin ako yung babaeng sasabihin sakanya na humingi siya, and hindi rin siya ganon. He’s not perfect at ako rin. he tried to find a job pero hindi nag suit sa schedule niya pero nakapag drug test na siya and other need sa papasukan sana niya. he didn’t notice na nag wowork ako. Kasi like me, stress out din siya. I know hindi siya perfect pero he’s trying to change now. may tampo ako sakanya oo, may galit siguro onti kasi gusto kong ipag laban niya kami, onti onti ko ng nakikita lahat ng ‘yon. without him. hindi ko maibabalik baby ko.
nag makaawa ako sakanyang mag stop muna ng pag aaral but he’s telling me na kailangan niyang mag tapos para samin ni Baby. para mabigyan niya kami ng magandang future.
All I want to say here is that I loved him. and I will never leave him despite of his imperfections. I was the one na nag maka awa sakanya to abort the baby kasi hindi ko na kinakaya.
I appreciate you and all the comments, isa isa kong binabasa. hindi ko rin alam if tama mindset ko ngayon.
PS: i’m on birth control pills before until now. hindi rin namin alam paano ako na pregnant.
Ang tanong, will he still love you the same after aborting your child? I hope so. Knowing that his family knew about your abortion, matatanggap ka ba nila? Or kaya mo bang e-ignore yung pamilya niya or ilalaban ka ba ng boyfriend mo sa pamilya niya? Someday you will know, at kung ang sagot ay hindi, sana naman magkaron ka ng sobrang lakas ng loob, gaya ng lakas ng loob nung nagpa abort ka na alisan yung toxic relationship niyo.
PS: i’m on birth control pills before until now. hindi rin namin alam paano ako na pregnant.
FYI. Hindi 100% effectivity ang pills. Most common failure rate is misuse i.e. forgetting to take a pill. But even at perfect usage, there is still a known probability that you can get pregnant.
OP please don’t blame yourself, you didn’t abort yout child, you had a miscarriage. You were already experience premature prelabor contractions and 2 cm dilated ka na. In my line of work, our patients who experience that nacoconfine on average for a month. Masyadong maaga pa para mag 2 cm ka. You would’ve gave birth earlier if you hadn’t taken medications, your baby wouldn’t have survived for too long either. If you decided to save your baby, you would’ve spent millions. Diretso sa nicu yung baby mo kung nailabas mo at a later date. Even then, it wouldn’t be so comfortable for you nor your baby. I agree, this isn’t the right time for you to start a family. Hugs with consent, OP. Don’t blame yourself for what happened. You didn’t abort your baby.
you did whats best, op. 💖💖💖
Unfortunately, basic ang expectations natin pero yung mga yan kulang din sa knowledge about sexual and reproductive health. Hindi naman kasi sinasama mga yan talaga sa curriculum nila kasi “Catholic country ang Pilipinas”
Yung problema kasi ginagawang laro nalang yung sex. Inuna yung libog. Para saan ba yung utak kung di rin gagamitin. Clearly his Bf is an immature piece of shit pero si OP binigay din namn ung consent nya. If both arent financially and mentally ready, dont do it in the first place. Im not against abortion, kasi atleast may option yung mga rape victims pero in this case, it's different. Di ko sure kung bkt pinost to op but I dont feel any sympathy towards her.
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The secret in winning at life is not to give a fuck about what other people think.
Amen😌
Dear...take it from me,ang hirap maging solo parent.Never ever trust a man's words na magsex na walang protection.Ever.Katawan mo,ikaw mahirapan magdala and worse...hindi madali maging magulang mag isa (solo parent here).Please be on contraceptives from now on,with no fail.I dont care ano kind! Personally IUD sana para isahang gastos (or minimal gastos sa RHUs) good ka na for 5-10 years-it buys u time to set up ur life.Wag na wag ka na magpapabola sa kahit sinong lalaki ulit.Kaya mo yan,ignore them-wala naman sila ambag sa solusyon e,so wala sila paki.No judgment here,but pls pls pls be careful abt ur sexual health.See a pyschologist na rin for ur mental health when u can.
thank you! i’m using contraceptives now for my endometriosis. 💜
Your body is still going through the hormonal changes. Give it and yourself time, and allow yourself to grieve.
You will make better choices and find better people to surround yourself with. You will overcome.
Sana naman, sabay mo na ring hiniwalayan yung boyfriend mo. Ang root cause ng problema mo is your boyfriend and the people around him.
no, si op may problema rin. Yung problema kasi ngayon is ginagawang laro ung sex. clearly op and her partner is not financially and mentally ready. Partner niya studyante pa lang at halatang spoiled. Inuuna kc yung libog bago mag isip. Im not against abortion especially for those rape victims, pero in this case clearly both side my consent. Ginusto nila, now op is facing the consequence of her action.
Those "pro-life" people won't be willing to adopt and sustentuhan yung baby if ever pinanganak mo and with your current situation, mas pabor talaga na hindi ituloy ying pregnancy. Let your body to heal and please pa-check ka sa OB after ha? May times kasi may remnants pa ng fetus na naiwan esp I'm assuming hindi safe yung way ng abortion (given it is illegal here so tago and di sa hospital ginawa). For now, prioritize your health, physically and mentally. And nakita mo na paano ka itrato ng fam ng bf mo nung nabuntis ka, would you choose na ituloy and eventually maging in-laws mo sila soon? Prioritize yourself, it's not selfish, it's self-care.
Hi OP, I've been there too. And I know ang gulo-gulo ng nararamdaman mo, hindi mo maintindihan iniisip mo. Choice mo kung iiwanan mo yung bf mo, pero please, do what's best for you. Feel all the emotions you have right now, but please don't let it get the best of you. Kaya mo 'yan, kakayanin mo 'yan.
I know nakaka-guilty pero mas nakaka-guilty maging hindi emotionally and financially available para sa anak mo. Lastly, I'm proud of you na kinaya mo mag-undergo through abortion, yung fear, worry, pero naging matatag at marapang ka.
Now, move forward, slowly and steadily.
There's one video on TikTok about the woman feeling guilt after abortion. Her therapist says her decision is the most motherly she can do. Meaning choosing abortion doesn't make you a bad person. You have to make tough decisions about what is best for your well-being and for the potential child.
Let the pain process, it does not go away but you are going handle it. Hugs OP!
I love this!
This is your choice and nakakahanga na you manage everything alone. Your baby will understand. Kesa magulong mundo na parehas kayong magsasuffer. Hayaan mo sila kung magalit sila. Dedmahin mo. Magiging okay din ang lahat. For now, focus on healing.
Virtual hugs, op. Madaming nagagalit dahil "buhay" ang usapan. Alam kong gusto mo lang ang best para sa baby mo, ayaw mo lang syang mahirapan. Naiintidihan namin, op. Ang hirap ng pinagdadaanan mo kaya sana ay makayanan mo. To be honest, against din ako sa abortion pero hindi ako magagalit dahil buhay mo yan at decision mo yan. Alam namin na hindi mo gagawin yan if kinakaya mo pa. Napaka-strong mo, op. Laban lang sa buhay, okay?
1st year pa lang sa nursing tinuturo na ang different types of contraception. naturingan pa ng nursing student kung di manlang iaapply mga natutunan niya sa totoong buhay.
Hugs, OP! It's your body, not theirs. Break up with your asshole bf and this is the time to start anew. (Also sana nagpa-raspa(?) ka po for health purposes)
Kawawa rin kasi yung baby, i mean yes may choice yung buntis na nanay pero what about the choice of the kid :/ they don’t get to choose though? This is where i’m so conflicted about it
Bakit ka macoconflict e di naman ikaw yung nagbubuntis? I don't get it. You think you have a say on what OTHERS do to THEIR bodies?
I think people are confused, like i get the mother has her body and has her choice.
But what about the child? Doesn’t he/she also get to have a choice in this? Doesn’t the child also have a say on what happens to their body?
I’m really confused how its murder if you stab a newborn but it’s suddenly ok as long as its inside the pregnant mom?
kung ako yung baby at ganyan sitwasyon ng magulanv ko abay gugustuhin ko na lanv din na di ako buhayin
Priii mas okay yang ginawa niya kaysa mag suffer yung baby habang na bubuhay sa mundong ibabaw. Lalaki yung bata na may bobong tatay papayag ka nun bilang anak? 😭
Yan Yung Hirap sa Inyo eh, puro kayo kesyo mali ang pag abort ng bata na bakit Yung Bata is nawalan ng karapatan para mabuhay. Alam mo mas okay na Yung ginawa ni OP na habang nasa tyan pa lang nag decide na sya na hindi nya kaya kesa nman sa mga nanay na sinasabi pang blessing ang anak pero ayun nauwi din sa child neglect and child abuse. Bakit ang bata ba na nasa loob pa ng tyan ay capable to make a decision of its own? Kailangan ba dapat may pirmahan pa magaganap for consent? Di ko rin ma gets saan niyo napupulot yung argument niyo parang ang dumb lang nung tanong.
i agree. lahat ng mga decision ng mga bata is done by the mother and this is true until the child becomes 18 years old. i don't see why people can't understand that the mother is responsible for any decisions done to/for the baby.
Diba nag aagree naman tayo na mali naman talaga pumatay ng bata, say for example 3 years old sa kalye? Bakit biglang ok lang habang nasa loob pa ng tiyan? Dahil nakatago pa? Pareho naman sila di kaya madecide?
So buhayin na lang, hintayin mag18 para magkachoice?
Ayun nga yung problema, if sasabihin ng magulang mo, “excuse me anak, sasaksakin na lanv kita kasi mahirap yung buhay”, hindi ba papalag yung mga bata? Isn’t it a natural human instinct to survive and avoid danger / death?
So sino gagastos ng 18 years? Magaalaga.? Oh wait, sino magcacarry for 9 months?
Would this mean you would also be in favor of eugthenizing children 1-17 years old na nakadepende pa rin sa magulang?
Bottomline is, the baby won't be under your responsibility. If tinuloy niya pregnancy niya would you chip in? Will you talk to her boyfriend and his family regarding the issues about this matter? If you're still studying, will you stop studying to support her and the child? And tbh, at some point I do wish that my parents just aborted me lmao. So how do you know if the fetus wants to live or not, what if ayaw naman pala niya ng magiging buhay niya and would rather die than to live in this world. You wouldn't know diba, therefore the decision falls to the mother's hands. You're getting downvoted cause yung problem kase is ayaw niyo ng abortion but the question is will you be willing to adopt children that are not of your own? Willing to donate big chunk of your income to single mothers? If not, you don't really have the right to question their decision of aborting.
Te, ang tanong ko sinong magaalaga? Ayaw na nga nung “host”. Gusto mo ba mabuhay yun bata pero puro resentment na lang?
Sabihin natin walang mag-aalaga. Ok lang ba sayo barilin na lang yung mga batang walang mag-aalaga para wala nang resentment? Papayag ba yung mga bata?
“Sorry po iho, this is for your own good kaysa. I hope you understandn. Huwag ka na lang pumalag ah.”
paulit-ulit ka nagcocomment nito pero di mo pinapansin yung reply ko sayo refuting this argument. halatang troll or di ka lang nagbabasa. selective responses ka lang. if you want to engage in discussion, respond to everyone.
Gosh this person. Hahaha. I cannot.
Yeah kausapin mo sa tiyan baka naman magets ka. 🤣🤣🤷🏻♀️
What kid? Is the kid in school? Is he paying taxes? There is no “kid.” This is why I fucking hate religious people.
Wait ito hindi ko gets, ok lang ba saksakin yung bata basta nakatago sa loob ng mother?
Kasi diba makukulong ka pag sinaksak mo yung bata sa school?
And in both cases both of them dont pay taxes :/ does this mean, you have higher chances of being useless and condemn to death pag ganun?
you’re confused because you’re thinking about this in a black and white way. you’re expecting a simple answer to a complicated question. i get why you wanna advocate for your opinions but this is not the place to do it. have some consideration for OP
please understand the difference in the situations you presented.
1) kung nagsasak ka ng bata sa school, that is murder. your intention is to kill the kid, no other thing. walang ibang factors na icoconsider kung magpapatay ka ng bata sa school.
2) kung mag-aabort ka ng bata, that can be justified. do you think na hindi pinagisipan ni OP ng maigi ang kanyang desisyon bago siya nagpaabort? sa tingin mo nagising lang si OP one day na patayin ang bata sa tiyan niya? if you read their post again, it took them 5 months to consider abortion. they worked hard to keep the kid - "...samantalang ako nag w-work sa vape-shop para lang may pang OBgyne at pang bili ng vitamins ni Baby dahil sobrang hina ng kapit niya."
magkaiba ang pagpatay ng bata na nasa eskwelahan sa pagabort ng bata. if there is any situation that is remotely similar to stabbing a child in school, then that would be if OP intentionally engaged in intercourse to stab their baby right after conceiving them.
There is no “kid” inside the mother, only a clump of cells until it is born, then “it” will become a “kid”
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If a rooster fertilized an egg, then I smashed the egg against the wall, did I kill a chicken?
I see you're part of r/TrueChristian, no wonder you're retarded. You speak of life as it concerns you, but your bible stories says otherwise.
Noah's ark is plain genocide, yet you mask it as a children's bible story
Look how pro life your religion is: https://youtu.be/C9AOuedvOnI?si=1a0U3sHWYCjT_mBF
You're pro-birth, not pro-life
Di ko gets, kapag nakalabas sa vagina, tawag dito sanggol? Tapos bago lumabas sa vagina, clump of cells?
Wala ka sa position ni OP para sabihin kung ano ang tama at mali. Bat ka naman magluluwal ng sanggol kung alam mong maghihirap lang naman siya?
So based on your logic, dapat patayin nalang nating yung mga batang kalye. Alam naman natin na maghihirap lang sila
based on your logic, buhayin mo yung mga batang kalye. are you responsible for their lives? are you their legal guardian to make that decision for them? the decision falls on the person responsible for them. common sense lang.
I dont know why you’re getting downvoted. But this is where i’m heavily conflicted. Its murder when you terminate the life of the baby outside the mother. Pero the moment na nasa loob, biglang ok lang? How does that make sense?
In both instances, the kids don’t get to choose?
There is nothing to be conflicted about, even in a hypothetical world where developing fetus are considered as fully developed human infants, the right to decide would ultimately still fall on the parent. Whether outside the womb or not, the parents will decide for it, not the "child".
Bobo
Seek support, OP. Also, choose the right people in your life na. Kung ako sa'yo, hihiwalayan ko boyfriend ko kasi di pa niya kayang magpakatatay + mahihirapan ka kung magiging asawa mo siya dahil walang suporta sa'yo ang side ng family niya.
Cut off mo na rin 'yang so called bff mo.
Hope all goes well for you
just like marriage, having a baby is a personal decision. im not pro nor against it. pero what i believe is kung maapektuhan the rest of your life sino sila para i judge ka. just take accountability on your decision, and be careful next time OP. Nagkamali ka na minsan, dont commit the same mistake again. focus on improving yourself until such time na proud and ready ka na to be a mom again. wishing you all the best OP. goodluck.
You shouldn’t feel guilty, OP. Because you did what would be best for you and the fetus inside you. Tama ang reasoning mo: sa sitwasyon at support system na meron ka ngayon, you cannot guarantee na magkakaroon ng desirable na buhay yung magiging anak nyo.
Do not let them guilt-trip you. E di sana nag-step in na sila nun to help you.
My mom and some of my aunts are religious and conservative, but they had their own abortion stories (due to age, hindi pa handa, wala sa plano etc). You are not alone, and you are not at fault.
your baby will come back when the time is right op!! 💗
I hate to say this but iwan mo na yang bf mo
Abortion is still illegal sa Philippines, pero I understand you. Kahit na sabihin na wasted life yun, di pwede sabihin ng ibang tao ang dapat mong gawin kasi ikaw naman ang mabubuhay nun e, di sila. Hindi naman sila ang magaalaga, magpupuyat, mag gastos, at magpalaki sa kanya
It’s your body and your future. Ironic but it’s the same with your baby. Hirap magpalaki ng bata ngayon. I know kakayanin mo, pero grabe yung magiging hirap. If I were you, cut them all out of your life. You need to heal physically and mentally, and it’s impossible kasama yung mga taong walang pakealam nung need mo help, tapos mapanghusga kung kelan nag-give up kana. You’re not ready to be a mom. Let go mo na din yung bf mo. You don’t need someone na makakapagremind pa ng trauma sa buhay mo.
You don't need anyone's approval and forgiveness for what you did, OP. You did the right thing. I hope my parents had the same mindset like you. Walang kwenta tatay ko and my mom's financially irresponsible making me wish everyday na sana inabort na lang nila ako. I'm sure you'll be a great mom when you're ready. Please take care of yourself and always prioritize your peace even if it means cutting off people na walang ambag sa buhay mo. Hugs, OP!
Pls lang. Iwan mo na rin bf mo. Learn from this
Take your time for yourself to heal. I don't want to say this pero after going through hell of emotions, ayaw mo pa rin iwan bf mo because you still love him no matter what? OP, don't you think this is a wake up call na he's not even a fit to be a husband and a dad to your kids? Oo binibigyan ka nya financially even though he's trying naman and he's a student pero do you really trust him na "gusto niya magtapos para sa future niyo ni baby" or he wants to continue his studies kasi hindi naman sya yung nabuntis and his parents are not even doing anything to help you.
If ngayon pa lang na ganyan kalagayan mo and you receive little to no help from his family, what makes you think na they'll change sa future once na naging in laws mo sila? They didn't do anything when you're pregnant and sila pa tong nagagalit kasi they found out you had an abortion? You're also someone's pecious child. Like you said nagtatrabaho ka na lang for your baby samantalang yung bf mo tinuloy pa rin yung studies, it should be you continuing your studies.
You should stop seeking validation and love from your bf and his family. Gising OP, ikaw lang ang makakapili ng right husband and dad ng magiging anak mo in the future kasi your kids wont get to pick their own dad. You should practice self love kasi I think you became dependent on him emotionally. Leave, what you see is what you get. Yan na pinakita nila while you're pregnant so don't expect na they'll have this 180° change in the future.
Although, I'm really sorry for your loss. Always have a check up with your OB baka may remainings ng fetus, always take care of yourself OP
You did what’s best for you and the baby. I hope this time you’ll explore contraceptives so you will not go through that, again. 😊
Your body your rules. Wala sila ambag sa buhay mo.
if they’re confronting you, say it right in front of their face.
Ghuuuuuurl! Wag mong sabihing kayo parin hanggang ngayon? Pwede ka ng humanap ng mas responsableng lalake at mabait na inlaws.
Ikaw ang pipili ng magiging tatay ng anak mo pero ang anak hindi makakapili ng magulang, kaya choose wisely.
Pero sana naman bago ka mag hanap ng iba mag contraceptives muna para safe kung maling tao ang makuha at dipa ready sa responsibility.
Mahal niya daw, di niya hihiwalayan haha
What's done is done. And no one has the right to judge you for it.
Don't stress yourself on "what ifs" because you wouldn't really know if the path not taken was the better path.
More importantly, don't let your future self blame you for what you did, because we all make the best decisions out of what we know in the present.
Hi Jane! A virtual hug for you. 🤗 Nawa sana makita mo sa kabilang anggulo na maaring dumating ang baby mo sayo para iparealize sayo na iyang boyfriend mo ay malinaw na hindi karapat dapat sayo at para na rin sabihin sayo na hindi kaibigan ang pinagkakatiwalaan mo non. Pero sana sa kabila non naisip mong hindi rin ginusto ng magiging anak mo ang nangyare sayo/sainyo. Ngunit andito kana ngayon sa puntong ito at sana mas lalong magpakatatag ka sa buhay at pagkaingatan ng husto ang sarili. Hindi kita maaaring husgahan o sisihin alam kong masyadong masalimuot ang pinagdaraanan mo. Sana dumating rin ang panahon na mapatawad mo ang sarili mo. Sana wag kang makalimot sa Diyos kung naniniwala ka.
Ingat ka Jane! Pakatatag ka. ❤️
ikaw masusunod mima. pero the fact na nakapag desisyon ka now, kahit na iniiisp mo ssabihin ng iba. what more kapag mas naging strong kana, di mo na yan iindahin 🫣✨
" Your body, your choice " Sana alam nila yan
Your body, your rules.
YOUR body, YOUR choice. It’s difficult to filter out the noise sometimes but at the end of the day it’s YOU who will go through the process of giving birth and raising a child in an undesirable environment. No one supported you rin naman when these people found out that you were pregnant. Not even the guy who got you pregnant who was supposed to help and support you emotionally and financially in EVERY STEP of the way. Kaya you made the RIGHT CHOICE for yourself and for the fetus. No one wants to grow up in an environment na hindi favorable because it will just traumatize the child in the long run. Cut off those people na ang daming satsat eh wala naman alam and ambag sa pinagdaanan mo. It’s already 2024 and ‘yung utak nalang nila ‘yung hindi nagevolve.
What about the baby’s body and the baby’s choice? Is asking your child to die a reasonable request?
Hugs with consent ate ghorl! Im proud of you, but please piliin mo sarili at pag pag aaral mo this time. Para when the is right baby will be back at hindi sya matutulad sating kinukuwestiyon kung bat nabuhay pa sa magulong mundo
Hugs, OP. This is an incredibly difficult situation. Pero your body your choice. Your life your choice. I like how you mentioned na "ibabalik ko si baby." Just goes to show na hindi selfish yung decision mo and you just want the best for your future child. You are going to be a good mother in the future. Trust yourself on this! :)
🫂 di mo kasalanan ang sitwasyon mo, what you did is right, always pray for your baby and for yourself. Mapapalaya mo din ang sarili mo at sa susunod na ibalik sayo si baby sobra sobra ang matatanggap niyang atensyon at pagmamahal sayo. 🥰🫂
because they cant mind their own business. ignore.
You do you. Whatever you decide for your self and your body is the right thing to do. People will have a say on anything and there's no changing that. I still think that knowing you can't bring a child to this world is better than bringing them here and not being able to give them the life they deserve. It's a good thing you thought about your child and not just some selfish reason.
Thank you for saving him/her from a likely miserable life. U did the right thing.
Virtual hugs, OP. You do, you. No one can judge you for taking control of your own life. Hope you heal soon 🌈💖
I want to support you lalo na mabigat reasons mo, but abortion is illegal in the Philippines. Be careful next time.
your body, your rules. you were in a bad place mentally and financially. that alone shows na responsible ka enough isipin ang well being ng magiging anak mo if ipinanganak sya.
bawal sila magalit sayo kasi hindi ka naman nila tinulungan nung nabuntis ka. cut them off. wala sila alam sa pinagdaanan mo
Hug girl 🙏🏻 And talk to God Always i wish ibalik niya sayo si baby pag readdy na ready kana 🥺🫶🏻
tanginang yan, nursing student pero parang di aware kung kailan fertile at di fertile yung babae. di pa marunong gumamit ng condom jusko. walang kwentang lalaki.
for op, sending you a virtual warm hugs po... you did the right decision po. sobrang selfless mo to made that decision kase alam mo na mahirap mag-raise ng bata lalo na't hindi pa ready, wala po kayong kasalanan.
sobrang importante tlga mag protection, please mga kabataan dyan na di pa ready use protection, wag kayo mapadala masyado sa lust at isipin nyo ang possibility pag nabuntis kayo lalo na alam nyong hindi nyo talaga kaya.
The only one time I'd actually understand. Asshole bf, asshole bf fam...and I understand reasons you would've had why you didn't tell your family. Technically it's not your fault, but your bf's. Though the fact that your "friend" well, gossipped and ruined your repute makes me suspicious of some things. Do take time with your grief though. And yes, you are still mom enough.
Ex na dapat ang tawag sa ganyan. Sana man lang nag part time job bf mo na yan since nabuntis ka niya. Hugs with consent for you. Wishing you a fast recovery, dear. Ingat na sa susunod ha? Wag basta-basta magtitiwala.
please take care of your body OP, you went through a lot. super sipag and ang tapang mo for going all through that, you deserve to be around people who love you.
I may be evil to say this, but what you did is better than giving birth to a child when you don't have the financial capacity to provide everything your baby needs. Lalo na mukhang gusto pa magpakabinata ng bf mo. Sobrang mahal ng lahat ngayon. Healthcare, basic needs, even education.
Imagine how hard it is when your baby tells you he/she is hungry and wala kang maibigay sakanya. That's how poverty is.
Don't live your life like that. And may this be an eye opener for you that your bf is no good. Know your worth, and carefully choose a better partner next time. Please, please, do not risk it and practice safe sex until you and your partner is ready.
Actually, our country NEEDS abortion. Regulated abortion should be allowed here like in the other countries. Of course, with reservations.
I hope you are okay, and I hope you can forgive yourself in the future.
op, you just did what you thought what's best for your unborn child. Sabi ko nga lagi eh I'd rather be called selfish than an irresponsible parent. Take all the time to grieve and recover then start anew. Ignore and cut off ties with those who didn't bother to check on you while you were at your lowest point. Pag ready ka na, laban na ulit. Mahirap pero you'll eventually get to the good part. Hugs with consent.
First of all, I just want to congratulate you OP for making this brave decision. You did well, I'm proud of you. You are saving your baby and yourself from a deadbeat father and a loveless family/inlaws. I know sa conservative na country na toh, maraming mang ba-bash, fuck them.
It's your body, first off. Second, hindi nila alam perspective ng isang anak/ina na galing alanganin na family/time.
I'm pro abortion talaga. Let's stop birthing children who will suffer dahal sa alanganin na panahon just because society tell us so. Hindi sila ang gagastos or ang mag aalaga, their words shouldn't have much power sa nagdadalang tao mismo.
Ang lakas mo. Ang tapang mo. Ipagdadasal kita🫶🏻 makakarma rin ang mga nang gago sayo.
OP, it's your body and baby. And as for your boyfriend, he's the dumbest nursing student I know. Believe me when I say na you don't deserve him and he doesn't deserve that precious baby. Everything happens for a reason, the fact that you had the strength to do it also has a reason. You're one of the strongest people I've encountered. Magiging okay din ang lahat. Yakap, OP.
HUGS TO YOU KA OP! 🫂 it takes time to heal lalo na ngayon yung hormonal changes na nangyayari sa katawan mo. Hays Wala ako sa posisyon to judge o bigyan ka ng advice sa nangyayari sa sitwasyon mo. Ang tanging gusto ko lang sabihin sayo ay magpagaling ka at mas mahalin mo ang sarili mo.
Ang importante ay hindi lahat galit sayo. May iba na nakakaunawa at ready na magbigay ng support even sa virtual world lang. Kasama na ako dun. Kaya makakayanan at malalagpasan mo ito.
Siguro kailangan mo rin ievaluate kung nasa tamang relasyon ka ba. Kasi kung matino yang jowa mo, una sa lahat, hindi ka nya bubuntisin nang hindi sya handa. Pangalawa, the moment na nagbuntis ka, dapat inalagaan ka nya.
Honestly, it’s hard to force others to be compassionate with you because hindi nila naiintindihan ang pinagdadaanan mo. So kung ayaw mo na ng mga sinasabi nila, cut ties. Focus on improving your situation. Learn from this.
Hiwalayan mo na yang boyfriend mo
Nung mga panahong nagbubuntis ka dapat hindi ka nagta-trabaho iinaalagaan ka dapat ng boyfriend mo. Hindi mo obligasyon na humingi ka ng tawad sa kanila dahil nung mga panahong kailangan mo ng alalay, wala sila.
daming say ng mga pro-birth lakas makapang lowkey guilt trip kala mo naman mag aambag sa pagpapalaki ng bata at pang therapy ng bata pag nag teenager kung sakali
You did it for you and your future child, guilt may be there pero sana hindi ka nakakaramdam ng regret. Every child deserves to be born to a mentally, emotionally and financially prepared parents, which you and your useless boyfriend aren't right now.
Please break up with him and his family. Hindi mo deserve na ma-torment for the choice you made.
Sending prayer, be strong alagaan ang mental health baka magka PSSD ka po
Virtual hugs to you and please don't blame yourself alone on this situation.
It was probably best to have the abortion lalo na it seems the boyfriend is irresponsible at gusto lang sarap.
I suggest you break up with him and focus on yourself. Perhaps seek professional help because having an abortion is never easy psychologically on women.
Don't worry hindi sya kawalan you will find a better and more responsible man who is worth having a baby with.
u did the right thing, kawawa lang magiging anak mo sa ganyang family ng bf mo at mismong bf mo. tama lang na ipa babysit mo muna sya kay papa jesus.
Hugs OP.
OP be kind to your self and give your self some grace. Personally, you did the best thing that you can do at this time given your situation. Nothing to worry about. You save your baby’s future na hindi ka ready and so as your irresponsible bf’s future. All the best OP and may you heal from this and find peace in knowing na you made the right choice for your own sanity
I'm so happy for you. It takes so much courage and a lot of thinking to come up with the decision. Hindi selfish ang decision mo kase iniisip mo rin kapakanan ng baby mo! Good luck to your future endeavors miss!
ps: tanginang bf yan at family niya. kung malakas silamg magreklamo sana malakas rin silang sumuporta mga mamaw
Op you did the right thing! it's your body and it's your choice. Nakaka upset lang saken na irresponsible yung guy, careless siya sa protection at sex imagine if naging ama pano niya paninindigan anak niyo.
You ain't wrong. Buti na lang at hindi nagkaroon ng complications kahit 5 months na noong pinalaglag mo. Sa first trimester kasi safe ang abortion.
practice responsible sex.
Sending virtual support to you, OP. I empathize with your circumstances as my best friend faced a similar ordeal 15 years ago. She continues to struggle with feelings of guilt, particularly as she has been married for 6 years now but remains unable to conceive. I wish for your emotional recovery and inner serenity. It is my hope that you disengage from your partner who demonstrates a lack of responsibility by neglecting to use protection and disregarding your welfare.
No judgement OP. As a mom of 2, big responsibility mgkaron ng anak. Mentally, physically, at financially di siya madali. Nakakabaliw. Kailangan handa at matibay ka at sobrang importante ng support sa mga taong malapit sayo. Kapag wala ka nun madali ka lulugmok at susuko. At mas hanga ako sa mga taong inuuna isipin yung mundong kagigisnan ng mgging anak nila though much better sana kung wala ng nadamay na buhay. Pero moving forward, alam kong mas natuto ka ngyon at bilib ako sa tatag mo hindi biro naging desisyon mo. Allow yourself to heal. At sana kasama dun yung pkkpghiwalay mo sa bf mong walang kwenta. Sana bumawi ka sa magiging baby mo next time na mgdecide ka mgkaron ng baby sa panahong handa ka na.
nyeh pangit kbonding ng comments dito .. hirap n nga si poster 😿 body mo yn, do what u think is best for u ayaw rin nmn ng magiging baby mo mbuhay na hndi sya wanted … baby will come again at the right tym ❤️
Hugs op! I’ve been there and valid naman nararamdaman mo. 3 yrs ago nagpa abortion din ako pero now na ready na ako mentally and physically may 2months old baby na ako and nasa US with the right guy. Isipin mo nalang na nasave mo sarili mo sa toxic family ng guy and chance to make a better future. It will get better soon, pero pacheck ka rin oki? And mag pa inject ka ng HPV vaccine
Iwan mo na mhii
you made the right decision for yourself and im with you sa decision mo.
Send virtual hugs and comfort!!! Kaya mo yan, OP. You're going to make it!!! Laban lang, walang mali sa ginawa mo, you're so brave!!!
Right decision to abort the child, wala ka pagkukulang and wala mali sayo. PLEASE know na hindi obligasyon na suyuin parents niya, they should know better.
Hayaan mo sila. Focus sa healing mo.
Hindi ko maintindihan mga ibang magulang na parang wala lang sa kanila na may nabuntis ang anak nila na lalaki. Sa lahat ng tao dapat sila ang nakaintindi ng situation mo dahil naranasan din nila kung paano mag-alaga ng fetus. Oo, naging mapusok kayo ng bf mo pero sana naalagaan at nagabayan ka din nila. Kaya may mga lalaking mayayabang dahil tinitolerate ng magulang.
Hati din opinion ko sa abortion pero sorry kung naexperience mo ganitong paghihirap. Pero ayon nga sana sa susunod maging maingat ka na din. Isipin mo lagi anong mangyayari kapag may ginawa kayong dalawa ng “magiging” partner mo.
girl, imagine ngayon palang napabayaan ka ng bf mo willing ka pa din ba ituloy ang relationship niyo? Pag-isipan mo mabuti kasi future mo ang nakasalalay dito.
Walang naitulong ang mga judgemental sa time na nahihirapan ka sa pag bubuntis mo OP so wag mo silang dinggin kung nag iingay sila ngayon sa decision mo to abort. It's almost a year na since I've given birth and grabe din ang changes ng emotions ko. Nasa isip ko na nga ang mag s*icide kasi di ko na din maintindihan lahat. We're all hoping na totoo ang sinasabi mo about sa partner mo OP. Na he's doing his best for you. Kasi mahirap talaga. From pregnancy to birth to taking care of a newborn all the while you're body is still adjusting sa sudden hormonal changes tapos di pa supportive ang partner mo. You did what you think was the best for your baby. Kailangan din nya ng emotionally, physically, and financially ready na parents so, if you're not ready yet then you did the right thing. Maiintindihan ka rin ng angel baby mo. He'll guide you through your healing journey till the time na ready ka na sa kanya ☺️
I guess may kulong sa abortion, illegal sa Philippines ang abortion po 🥲
Hi, OP. I’m sorry to hear about what happened to you. I may not know how it really feels but I do know that it really hurts. Ramdam ko sa kwento mo na hindi mo talaga ginusto. Pero, one thing is for sure, naramdaman ng baby mo yung love mo para sa kanya until the end.
Pero sana maging lesson din to for you to love yourself too, piliin mo sarili mo this time. Fix yourself. Gusto kong sabihin na hiwalayan mo bf mo kasi he already showed his true colors during your pregnancy. What more pag naulit? Especially now, may lamat or magkakalamat na relationship niyo because of what happened. They’ll think na makasarili ka and all when in fact, may ambag sila why you ended up in that situation. Hindi mo kasi need ng validation or opinion nila. Mas makakasama pa sa’yo yung emotions nila towards you kasi di mo ma-aaddress yung sarili mong emotions and feelings. Mas maiisip mo yung kanila.
Take all the time that you need to be sad, to grieve, and to think. Then, help yourself up. Go back to school if you can, go get that diploma, and be successful. So when the time is right and prepared ka na in all aspects, ready ka na to embrace yung pagbabalik ng baby mo, with the right person (sana). Hugs with consent
Palaging nasayo yung desisyon mali man yan or tama. The only question here is, Is that really worth it? Did that fix everything? If not, then I'm so sorry. You made an irreversible choice and you'll live with that for the rest of your life. Can't imagine the pain and regret that comes with it afterwards :(
After mo maka recover jan, mag pa implant ka search mo yung Free sa Likhaan ata. 1 week lang healing process non tapos 3 yrs ka ng safe. So u san assure urself na u will not get pregnant until you are ready
Hugs. Yaan mo na yang mga walang dulot na yan. Your body your choice.
kung alam nila and they are not making an effort to support you habang fetus pa lang what more kung naging sanggol na.
Don’t feel guilty… its your right na unahin ang well being mo given na depressed ka while pregnant imagine post partum mas lalala yan. Di ka selfish ni prioritize mo lang mental health mo and overall well being mo. Its okay.
Practice safe sex na lang if di ka pa ready para di na maulit. Take PRESCRIBED pills or use protection ganun.
Abortion has always been a taboo subject in our society. Whether dito or sa ibang bansa, it doesn'y change the fact na may taong okay at di okay dito.
Personally, I do not support abortion. But it still is up to you and if you choose to abort the pregnancy, I'll respect that kasi desisyon ko yan eh.
However, that is me and not 99.99% of the populace so here's the thing...
For many, getting pregnant is a decision. It is always a choice kasi we know naman na unprotected sex may ead up to either STD or pregnancy. So it is always there. That said, you know how to prevent it. Iba ang case ng mga piniling mag-sex ng unprotected at ng pinuwersa na makipagtalik (at mabuntis) so sorry if there may be harsh words that will come out pero the truth is never kind, especially to these cases.
Another big reason why abortion is so bad is because of our religion, or the majority of the religion here in the country. Abortion, to them, is equivalent to murder and that terminating a pregnancy is just as the same as committing murder. Getting an abortion is a mortal sin, according to the Bible, and so many people view abortion as taboo and even criminal.
Now, what you feel... Depression, guilt... It is normal. Normal na maramdaman mo yun. Afterall, that pregnancy is yours. If anyone who should be grief stricken, it should be you. However, di mo rin maikakaila na despite them not being supportive of you during your pregnancy, eh they still have that hope to see the child born into the world. Maybe they view it as another "blessing" that will bring luck into the family. So normal din na nung naterminate ang pregnancy eh they felt slighted. However, just because it is normal for them to feel that way doesn't mean eh they have all the right na to judge you.
Now, my question to you is... How did it go with your bf? i assume na sinabi mo na sa kanya so how did he react to it? Sabi ko if anyone should feel bad the most in this situation it is you, pero the other person na may karapatan na masaktan or magkaroon nf hinanakit is your bf din since he is the other half para makabuo ng baby eh no? So how did he take it?
how to abort po ba without going in sum places, active kasi ako and i use contraceptives naman for safety. but just in case yk, my friends are active din so it might help. thanks, girlies !! 🎀
First of all, I’m so sorry you have to go through all this. I work in OB so I know so much about pregnancy. I’ve seen families break right in front of my eyes during pregnancy and delivery. I eat my meals every single day watching women go through all the same problems with minimal to no emotional, moral and financial support.
I am childfree by choice.
The question is, why do (a lot of women) you, even care about what other people say? They ain’t paying yo bills. Definitely they not paying for child support.
Let them hate you. But don’t let them destroy you. Do not let anyone’s opinion dictate your future. Or feelings. Kung yung mga tao na galit sayo kase nagpaabort ka, or can’t even support your decision, get them out of your life. You don’t need that negativity.
Nursing pero di alam safe sex. Sure bagsak yan sa board ang bobo e
Dear I totally understand what you're going through. Take it from someone na nagpa bola sa communal dick nyang ex boyfriend na kesyo he'll always be there. I have a choice to abort my baby , but he practically begged me to have his kid but got cheated on afterwards.
Although, I'm very much happy that I still continued my pregnancy and my baby's now 1 year old, I still think about the possibilities na what if I was strong enough to decide on my own? What if I was the one who had a final say since katawan ko naman 'to? Kase looked where it led me?
Point is you are strong enough to act on that choice so stand on it. Take every time in the world to heal and go to therapy. I suggest PGH, it's free need mo lang pumila sa first sesh then your doctor will contact you na directly sa succeeding sessions. Always remember na healing is not linear and dadaan ka talaga sa 5 stages of grief.
Regarding naman sa jowa mo, since you already stated na may konting galit ka, sweetheart that will turn into resentment later on. Your relationship will not be the same after everything and your boyfriend will always be your reminder of that. Highly reco na hiwalayan mo sya. It's for the better.
Lastly, please let this be your learning lesson as you deal with life. This part of your life will change you, nasa sa'yo na lang if its for the better or not. Your feelings are valid but so are your actions. Wag madaliin ang pag heal, slowly process things. It will take a lot of time pero you'll get through it eventually. Sending love and light to you❤
You have every rights to your body. And yes, sobrang sensitive once na naging buntis ka, it’s alright to have an abortion as you said, kawawa ang bata once na mangyare sakanya ang nangyare sayo. Once the time is right ibabalik din sayo yung baby na para sayo, for now, love yourself and heal from all of the pain.
di ko gets yung ibabalik si baby once the time right? “mabalik ko siya whatever it takes” Paano?
Ang cute nung part na 'yan. Paano ibabalik eh pinatay nga.
Nagdadrama yan si OP. Looking for someone to sympathize her, Lmao. Gusto niya may magsabi sa kanya na okey lang yun and that she did nothing wrong. Putang ina nya, nag ego trip lang yan. She fuck up and her action caused a life to be taken. Di nya yun mababawi yun unless ofcourse alam nya yung secret art of necromancy.
People are in no position to judge you - ano man yung choice mo. Kasi at the end of the day, ikaw at ikaw lang din nakakaalam ng best for you and ikaw at ikaw lang din magdadala ng consequences ng any actions mo. Whether itinuloy mo or ngayon na hindi. So deciding for your own sake is always ok.
Hope you will get well soon and bounce back to living life.
On the other hand, break that ship you have with your bf. I don't think it's worth it. Try to heal alone. Hugs girly 🫂
Your body, your rules. Hiwalayan mo na yang boyfriend mong bonjing
it’s still your choice at the end of the day. Just the thing about this “your body your rules”, it should also be applied on how you protect yourself. Educate yourself about your cycle and contraception. Practice safe sex. hindi yung puro kayo kant0t tapos magsisisi sa dulo. Enjoy fvcking but fvck responsibly.
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Sorry OP but in this day and age, you don't get pregnant if you don't want to. Both you and your bf fucked up. And to think he is a nursing student pa. If you are not going to be responsible when it comes to sex, might as well not do it. Every excuse that you both come up with is just pathetic
Your body, your rules
Your body, your choice. ffs hiwalayan mo yang BF mo. madaming tite na responsible dyan at walang pamilyang ulupong.
Im not against abortion especially for those rape victims pero kung may consent yung sex, ibang usapan yun. Kaya nga may condom eh. Yung problema kasi these days ginagawang laro yung sex. Inuuna yung sarap bago mag isip. Call me old fashion pero if both sides cant take responsibility, then dont do it.
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Member ka cguro landi muna bago mag-isip no? Just because walang pumipigil sayo na gawin yun, gagawin muna. Kaya nga may rules eh para di maabuso. Abortion should only be given to those who unwillingly got pregnant like rape victims. Si OP ginusto nya, pero sinampahan siya ng realidad that being a mother is not fucking easy. She chose the wrong time to get pregnant and she chose a wrong partner. Pwede naman iwasan yung mga problema nya by simply pausing and think. Kaso yung utak nya nasa vagina. Now, her action caused a living being to die. Tapos magdadrama sya ngayon. Fuck you and fuck her.
Valid naman feelings mo. But sa point of view ko lang ha, sana di mo na pinaabot ng 5 months. Medyo buong tao na yun eh and nakakaawang isipin si baby 😭😭😭 nanay ako at naiiyak ako pag naiisip ko to.
Although i understand na we all have the right to our own body, still it doesn't mean na pwede na maging irresponsible. Always take measures so you won't get pregnant again (like birth control) so you won't have to kill another child. Whatever your reasons are, you cant erase the fact that you had to kill a child because of your reckless behavior in the first place. I hope you learned from that.
I guess lower your expectation from these people. Clump of cells daw hanggat hindi nailuluwal. Who knows how old these people we are talking to about this thing.
I’m sorry! noong lumabas si baby ko hinawakan pa niya kamay ko. At first I don’t want to give up on him. maniwala ka man o hindi, limang OB napuntahan ko, puno ng ultrasound yung booklet and envelope ko. limang OB dahil mahina kapit, sinabi noong unang OB ko na wala ng pag asa si Baby. nasa pinaka baba na siya ng matres ko and naka open na cervix ko ng 2cm that time. they want to confine me that will cost 30,000 every night. every day I had to take 6 medicine. duphaston, progesterone and vitamins. kaya lumipat ako. Lilipat ulit kapag namamahalan ako.
There’s this time while working bumagsak ako sa hilo at natamaan balakang ko. nag pa check up agad ako knowing na I might hurt my baby. lumabas sa ultrasound na nag ccontract na si baby. Alam kong lumalaban din baby ko.
I talked to my baby na hindi ko na kaya lahat, hindi ko masisisi boyfriend ko kasi he gave every last of his money. Hindi lang sapat. Hindi sila mayaman. he’s trying to change now. may tampo ako sakanya oo, pero without him. hindi ko maibabalik baby ko.
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I guess you made the right decision, kasi kawawa din naman ang bata kung lalabas na walang magandang future. Pero ang sakin lang be responsible na lang next time na hindi ka mabuntis ulit so that you don't have to kill another human being. Kasi kahit ano pa man ang reason mo, you cannot erase the fact that you killed a child. It all boils down to both of you being irresponsible in the first place. Be responsible na lang next time. (As in take measures not to get pregnant, birth control)
I hope isa sa mga nakuha mo na lesson ay maging responsable sa ano mang consiquence ng actions mo.
Sarap makipag sex pero sana maging handa na maging magulang kung hindi kayang macontrol ang sarili at gumamit ng protection to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
Di babalik yung baby. That one's gone.
I guess the OP looked at the cousin and was scared the baby may also have Down.
Nursing tas di marunong ng safe sex? Tapos di ba niyan alam ang Yuzpe method. Palagi naman talaga ang sisi sa babae, women can never win! Kaya hayaan mo sila, and with that, wag tayong aasa sa mga lalaki when it comes to our reproductive health, gusto lang niyan magpasarap. Kaya ako when I started being active nung college, I started taking pills as my contraception of course with prescription from my OB-GYNE. Hayaan mo sila, focus on yourself and much better hiwalayaan mo na yan
Abortion at 5 months? Isn't that too late? Totoong tao na inabort mo not an embyro. I have nothing against abortion pero mas humane ata kung maaga mo ginawa
Eto dapat ang malaman ng bawat isa. No to pre marital sex if hindi ka ready. Parehas kayo lakas ng loob nyong magsex di naman kayo ready sa magiging resulta. College students na kayo alam nyo na consequences ng mga ginagawa nyo.
If you think ginawa mo what's best for you, then so be it. Also, hati ang opinion namin dito. Makakakuha ka ng validation and also sermon, expect mo na 'yan. Just because they are in favor doesn't mean the views of others are invalid, it would be better to be open sa both sides.
If you feel guilty, regretful, and depressed, face it. At least sa part na 'yan kaya mo pa magpakatao. Kesa sa iba na, parang nagtanggal lang ng tipak ng regla kung magpa-abort. Remember how your child looked like nung wala na siyang buhay at 5 months, make that as a reminder to not do it again. I hope marami ka natutunan dyan sa nangyare sayo. Do not blame yourself forever; you still have a life to live. Hindi ba 'yun din naman purpose mo bakit ka nagpa-abort? Endure the pain but do not let that stay with you forever.
why people get mad when someone had abortion?
Why not? It's case to case basis. Let's say two consenting adults or two teenagers who are both not ready to be parents, and they are aware of that, decided to have unprotected sex kase masarap daw kapag raw and iputok sa loob tapos obviously nabuntis yung both girls. Now, gusto nila ipa-abort, and after that tuloy lang doing raw sex, hindi ka magagalit sa klase ng pag-iisip na meron sila?
Another case, if na-rape? Lalo na kung incestuous rape? Bakit ikakagalit namin? When in fact, biktima yung babae. Wala siyang choice to begin with doon pa lang sa act of sex. Ang laki nung diff sa consensual sa forced/rape.
Hay naku. Why can't you guy be more responsible! RIP lil baby.
Murder
I understand where you’re coming from, but we truly can’t judge her sa choice nya sa katawan nya. Not that what she did was right. Syempre it was wrong, but let’s not call her that because clearly she just did what she had to do in order to survive. Hindi natin alam how worse things are for her sa likod ng post na to. :)
Agree with your opinion. But still, im calling it murder. Not judging her though. Hope God is forgiving enough to understand her case.
If He can forgive murderers during His time, He still can do it for her too. 🤗 remember His Apostle Paul caused the execution of christians (hence was called a murderer by some)
Fuck off.
Let me guess, pa woke na gen z ka? Bobo.
Not Gen Z, not pa-woke, not bobo either. Naiwan ba brain mo somewhere? Go find it.
Let me guess, hyper religious boomer/millenial na ginawang personality ang religion? Bobo.
Isa ka pang baboy na mamamatay tao. Sana ikaw inabort ng hamps lupa mong magulang.
Mama mo murder
Typical answer from a broke gen z na palamunin kaya umuutang sa home credit. Finish your studies first kid para magkalaman yang utak mo hindi sagutang grade 1 lagi.
La kang pake sa buhay ni op and wala ka din pake sa buhay ko. Umaasa sa post ng iba para may pang bato 😂
Stay in school, kid.
You should also mind your own business and keep your comments to your self kiddo.
Di sa pang jujudge..but mali po yun...at dapat pinaalam mo sa parents mo na your pregnant...kasi if di makatulong si bf ..family niya...atleast may family ka na makapitan...kesa naman basta mo nalang pinalaglag yung bata...you kill your own baby...kung pagalitan ka ng pamilya mo..natural yan..nag aaral ka inuna mo landi...so kahit sinong kapamilya mo magagalit..pero tutulong pa rin..
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Ambobo ng bf mo. Nursing tapos di alam gumamit ng condom. Hiwalayan mo na yan, tatanga tanga pa yan, immature sht