Hi would love some advice on my situation. i feel very unbalanced and quite anxious. 3 1/2 years ago i wrote a list about my husband. I was ready to meet the love of my life already, and i was rejecting everything that didn’t align with what i wanted in a relationship. (as a way to let the universe know what i want and not settling for less). fast forward a couple months i meet a guy, an absolute dream, treats me the way i want, values me , basically everything i wrote on the list to the T. he asked me to be his girlfriend i said yes, my first boyfriend and everything i wrote in my husband list. i was like this is it i found the one, a year goes by everything is amazing, till unexpectedly we couldn’t communicate anymore because his parents were strict and he wasn’t focusing on his university work. he’d check on me from time to time until it just stopped. and we couldn’t talk for 8 months straight. i tried everything to reach him, i was in a bad mental space. but when i gave up and deleted everything he texts me that same day. but he was different.. he was a different personality.. everything i feared. non committal… prideful.. just everything i steered away from & rejected from the universe. i started manifesting him and he’d come back being all lovey one minute and then ignoring me. which he never did. so it was hot and cold and it’s just a cycle. now idk if i should try to manifest his old version back or should i write and new list because he doesn’t match my vibration? thing is i fear that i actually manifested my husband but turned him into what i feared due to self sabotage and not healing my neediness. i would greatly appreciate any advice thank you
manifested the one and ruined it by self sabotage
Advice NeededI suggest you take a time out of this. Get therapy if you feel like you need it, but you need time to address your own concerns and resolve them. Put all your attention on yourself. Rather than focusing and criticizing something in you that has caused your current situation. Regardless, it doesn’t matter.
Most people who have been on manifesting SP journey, we’ve seen the worst sides of SP and other people show up. But it would be a mistake to try to figure out why a kind and caring person became a villain. You cannot psychoanalyze your SP. But you can definitely admit and say that you do not deserve to be treated this way, or never want these versions of people to show up in your life. Learn from it and put your foot down, and don’t even bother indulging further into negative circumstances or negative versions of people.
Once you change. You become better and more resilient and strong. Your SP will be back and will tell you he didn’t know what came over him. He was merely playing the role. His negative version is actually helping you, pushing you to resolve old and damaging beliefs you may still hold within you.
My advice is: become a version of yourself who never had and never will have this problem. A better you will create better circumstances and better versions of people to show up.
thank you so much for this, i blocked them because I felt i was losing too much of myself on someone else. I’ll take your advice and focus all my attention on me and again thank you for relieving my anxiety with your words i appreciate you❤️
I would say you should take a break from all this and work on yourself. To answer this whether you should manifest him back or not, meditation is the best solution for this. You should meditate on this particular question. Sooner or later, you will get the answer. Lastly, you should do some healing meditation as well. You will be fine, don't worry 😊
Start fresh with someone new. It’s always better to start fresh. Often when people try to go back and fix the old it just activates the old story and you get this mixed bag. Most people can’t keep their thought and emotions steady when there is a history behind that relationship. Do your best to move forward and stay steady in what you want.
Btw. His parents didn’t want him to stop talking to you because his school work was suffering. It’s because they didn’t want him to be with you. Or if they have never met with you then this was his excuse to stop talking to you.
how do u know what his parents wanted? very bold of u to make these kinds of assumptions. u must manifest everything u want with that type of boldness, no doubt
Maybe I am bold but I am also 47 years old. Im not young and naive. I first learned how to manifest over 30 years ago and yes, I get what I want.
Age has nothing to do with it. In the Bible it is said:
" I thank you, father, lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, father, for such was your gracious will " Mathew 11:25-26
OP can get her desired person. Maybe revision could benefit her but she needs to work on her SC because even if she manifest another, the same scenario is likely to play out because as within so without.
I never said they couldn’t get their SP.
hey thanks for the reply, yea i was contemplating on it. but i had someone else tell me the old story all stemmed from me anyway, insecurities.. self concept.. and in those 8 months i was thinking pretty bad stuff which did lead to them being completely a new bad version. so if i start with someone fresh , it’ll be the same if i dont fix the core issues which led to what happened here.
also yeah his parents weren’t that fond at first but it genuinely had to do with him not focusing, btw we have met , and i wouldn’t go to as far as to say he was making an excuse to stop talking to me because as i said, when he was back he was courting/chasing me like crazy
Look at your username. It ALL is a reflection of YOU.
reddit gave me this username this is a spam 😭😭
That's interesting. Do you always accept what's given to you? Reject this and revise it to a name that suits your imagination. 🌞
this isn’t very neville and loass of you
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