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I'd be upset too. I'm sorry you and your daughter are having to deal with this!! I'd call the school and ask to speak to the principal and/or the vice principal. If you have a relationship with one or are more comfortable with one ask for them. Over the phone may be easier than in person since it's an uncomfortable situation. But if in person is better for you then you can ask for a meeting. Explain that your daughter is having some serious issues with another student regarding inappropriate sexual behaviors and conversations. Tell him/her the whole story. Ask what can be done. Hear what they have to say and go from there. That's what I would do for a start. If the school doesn't facilitate a resolution you're happy with then maybe contact her parents? I hope you can get a resolution that works for your daughter and will stop this from happening again.
Agree with most of this, but wanted to add this: The other girl is also a young child, and not just some monster, and not a "bad kid", etc. It is not her fault, either. OP's daughter is also not at fault for "letting her do it". It is likely that something more might be going on with the other girl... They both need help.
Definitely inform the school of the situation, but I would NOT talk to the other girl's parents. She is 9 years old; She learned this behavior from somewhere... As another commenter said, I would also get the police involved, and possibly make a report to CPS as well. This is serious.
Good luck, OP.
I hope my reply didn't come across as implying that either girl is a "monster"!! It's just a serious situation that definitely has to be addressed without attacking or judgement. If the school doesn't address the situation with her parents I'd definitely contact the police as well. That's a good idea that I didn't even think of. Maybe counseling as well.
I know the post got removed, but still wanted to reply. You're totally good! I meant that more towards OP rather than you, although maybe that was the wrong word for me to use as it did come across as a little harsh or rude. OP had every right to be enraged, it just felt in the post like it was directed poorly? Overall I was just trying to convey that none of children should be judged or criminalized, etc. as they are ALL victims in this situation. Hopefully OP and the children involved can all heal and find a solution. Hope you have a great day as well!
No worries! I get what you meant. Just wanted to make sure that I didn't come across the wrong way. The OP is probably upset. I get that. I hope they get the help they need. Have a good day too!