Welcome to /r/Marriage, Reddit's home for civil discussions about married life in a positive and helpful environment. Do you need help in your marriage? Are you having problems with your relationship? Are you thinking about marrying? Do you need advice? Conversely, do you want to celebrate something wonderful in your marriage? Or can you give aid to someone who needs help? These are the reasons why we are here.

How long have you been married?  Tell us with your flair!

Note: *Do NOT private message or use reddit chat to contact moderators about moderator actions. Only message the team via the [Message the Mods](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/Marriage) link below. Directly messaging individual moderators may result in a temporary ban.*

##**Submission Rules**

* Most submissions should be self-posts. Link submissions that foster discussion are allowed from active members.

* No submissions or comments from media marketers, personal blogs, podcasts or videos, donation requests, affiliate links, or any other attempts to use our community for profit, marketing etc. or any other commercial promotion. Such messages or posts will be removed.

* Surveys and research may be posted within a single monthly thread created by the mods and pinned to the top of this subreddit. These survey posts are allowed if and only if such research is scientific or academic and if the results will be published publicly without a paywall. No market or commercial research will be allowed. If you have questions, send a note to the Mods.

* Posts must contain marriage-related content in the link/post body, not just a "forced" connection via the title or a caption added to the content.Posts also must have text explaining the topic.  No "AITA" posts. There are better ways to raise these issues. Title-only and 'AITA' posts are automatically removed.

* This is a pro-marriage equality subreddit. Discrimination based on legally protected classes (based in the US) such as race, gender, sexuality, gender identity, religion, age, ability, nationality, color, or creed will not be tolerated.

* This is a no-troll zone. Behavior whose sole purpose is meant to frighten, harass, attack, diminish, infuriate, insult, or manipulate another will, similarly, not be tolerated. This includes "YTA" comments. Reality is based on perception, if you test the limits, we'll likely err on the side of you or your comments getting blocked.

* No brigading or cross-posting from any subreddit or forum that regularly breaks these rules is allowed

* Respect others and their points of view while participating in the sub by maintaining civil discourse.

* Please assist the mods and report inappropriate posts, users, and comments.

##**Helpful Resources**

Much more information can be found in [this sub's wiki](https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/wiki/index). 

You will find books, articles, videos and many other resources to help in your marriage. There is also information on many common issues and popular topics in marriage, along with links to find professional help and to many other useful subreddits.

<div class="md"><p>Welcome to <a href="/r/Marriage">/r/Marriage</a>, Reddit&#39;s home for civil discussions about married life in a positive and helpful environment. Do you need help in your marriage? Are you having problems with your relationship? Are you thinking about marrying? Do you need advice? Conversely, do you want to celebrate something wonderful in your marriage? Or can you give aid to someone who needs help? These are the reasons why we are here.</p>

<p>How long have you been married?  Tell us with your flair!</p>

<p>Note: <em>Do NOT private message or use reddit chat to contact moderators about moderator actions. Only message the team via the <a href="https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/Marriage">Message the Mods</a> link below. Directly messaging individual moderators may result in a temporary ban.</em></p>

<h2><strong>Submission Rules</strong></h2>

<ul>
<li><p>Most submissions should be self-posts. Link submissions that foster discussion are allowed from active members.</p></li>
<li><p>No submissions or comments from media marketers, personal blogs, podcasts or videos, donation requests, affiliate links, or any other attempts to use our community for profit, marketing etc. or any other commercial promotion. Such messages or posts will be removed.</p></li>
<li><p>Surveys and research may be posted within a single monthly thread created by the mods and pinned to the top of this subreddit. These survey posts are allowed if and only if such research is scientific or academic and if the results will be published publicly without a paywall. No market or commercial research will be allowed. If you have questions, send a note to the Mods.</p></li>
<li><p>Posts must contain marriage-related content in the link/post body, not just a &quot;forced&quot; connection via the title or a caption added to the content.Posts also must have text explaining the topic.  No &quot;AITA&quot; posts. There are better ways to raise these issues. Title-only and &#39;AITA&#39; posts are automatically removed.</p></li>
<li><p>This is a pro-marriage equality subreddit. Discrimination based on legally protected classes (based in the US) such as race, gender, sexuality, gender identity, religion, age, ability, nationality, color, or creed will not be tolerated.</p></li>
<li><p>This is a no-troll zone. Behavior whose sole purpose is meant to frighten, harass, attack, diminish, infuriate, insult, or manipulate another will, similarly, not be tolerated. This includes &quot;YTA&quot; comments. Reality is based on perception, if you test the limits, we&#39;ll likely err on the side of you or your comments getting blocked.</p></li>
<li><p>No brigading or cross-posting from any subreddit or forum that regularly breaks these rules is allowed</p></li>
<li><p>Respect others and their points of view while participating in the sub by maintaining civil discourse.</p></li>
<li><p>Please assist the mods and report inappropriate posts, users, and comments.</p></li>
</ul>

<h2><strong>Helpful Resources</strong></h2>

<p>Much more information can be found in <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/wiki/index">this sub&#39;s wiki</a>. </p>

<p>You will find books, articles, videos and many other resources to help in your marriage. There is also information on many common issues and popular topics in marriage, along with links to find professional help and to many other useful subreddits.</p>
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A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage.

<div class="md"><p>A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage.</p>
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Don't forget to add text to your submission! Posts submitted with a title only are automatically removed.

<div class="md"><p>Don&#39;t forget to add text to your submission! Posts submitted with a title only are automatically removed.</p>
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I can't get through to my husband, and I can't keep throwing my life away...