Got harrased for being an inter religious couple

What happened with you is sad to say the least , but is becoming a bit too common to hear off . My friends faced something similar , but thankfully we were there to help and there were atleast 30 of us to scare away those who got irritated seeing an inter faith couple.

Now this is new way to share location

As a muslim man i can confirm that muslim men/boys have a lot of ego and can't stand someone from another religion dating/marrying a muslim woman. Sad but true.

They'd be very happy to date a non-muslim girl tho even when dating itself is prohibited in Islam.

They definitely took your video. It will be soon shared on various Instagram, YouTube and Telegram groups.

They will ask members to identify your GF name and inform her family.

This a very common practice in Mumbai and various Indian cities. There are organised groups behind this activity.

Basically, if they see a Muslim girl with a non-Muslim they follow this practice. This has been going on for many years.

You are lucky you are in Mumbai. In some cities like Hyderabad and many towns where the Muslim population is large, they would have directly confronted you and beaten you up.

You can find hundreds of such videos online.

never date a conservative muslim girl, you both will get serious but she won't take a stand for both of you when time comes for marriage. i hope it won't be the case for you. I am speaking from experience, i can't do anything because i am hopelessly in love but for you take my advice.

Radicalised islamic piece of shits those people are . If she feels unsafe better report to police share their pictures

Okay, you told the story now tell us what kind of advice you are seeking.

Not victim blaming, but your gf should not have wore the Hijab while being with you..it could have avoided the trouble of religious extremists.

There are several Instagram accounts with thousands of followers where these idiots go around filming Muslim girls/women who seem to be with men of a different religion. Their comments are full of people cheering them on. They literally barge into hotel rooms and such to "shame" these women and bring them "back" to their religion. There was a thread few months back regarding this dhanda.

If I were you I would distance myself from such drama. You're not going to win this fight.

if a kafir is safer to be around then those with skull caps then they definitely failed at being good muslims themselves or even humans, and have the audacity to go around pointing fingers at people.

I’m so sorry this happ to you guys. Hope it doesn’t reach her house and you guys do end up together. I’ve always wanted more and more people to from diff communities to inter marry ; it’s a great way for people to overcome prejudices.

Dont walk at night in india with ur wife. U can take a walk during the day time. And no, it just isnt dangerous in india. Night time is dangerous in every country. Or carry a legal weapon with u

Okay whoever is moral policing OP and his gf needs to stop rn. First and foremost OP if you got plates report them to nearest police station. Secondly, as far as escalation is concerned be prepared for it to be there and you will probably not see her. Your first priority is to be selfish and protect yourself and not her, know your surroundings and understand their implications in future. Inform your family about this and look for a lawyer friend in your group who can give better advice.

No Hate to ur religion But Islamic people other than Arabs are radicals.

you should be thankful that your head is not off your torso, cause my friend (a Muslim girl) was killed by her own family back in Feb 2017 for loving a Hindu guy (also killed by her family) they were backed by the Akhilesh government.

These chapris once touched my female friend's chest and ran away on scooty. She was devastated!!

These 💀🧢 people are a nuisance, fanatics and a burden to the earth, they’ll waste no time turning India into Iran if their government was in power. Carry pepper spray!

As a muslim, I am sorry this happened to you, there are some idiots who think they can interfere with anyone's life just because they are of same religion

I hope you 2 get some peace

Well its their inherent nature to do these things, most probably they run a puncture shop or pan thela nearby

Bro.. I hope you are safe.

Dont worry, these folks will make gajwa a hind reality. Making wish of a local maulwi true...

Also, you should think about your future with your girlfriend.

In her religion, door to heaven gets closed for father if she married a non Muslim.

And that boys and girls, is why religiously identifying clothes are not a good idea at all. Anywhere.

So Mumbai is not safe either then.

After watching these comments I understand one thing.

The minds of people are poisoned so much, that they can't see the value of love or relationship.

All they see is Hindu vs Muslim bullshit.

Hindu extremiss hurt innocent Muslims, and Muslim extremists hurt innocent Hindus. Anyway, the victims will always be the innocents.

It is a cycle that is repeating itself in this country right now.

There are muslim gangs with vast SM groups that keep track of hijabi girls and what boys they are with.

That's Muslim men for you in general. They'd date and marry outside their religion but won't let women of their faith choose a non Muslim.

To all the non Muslim women who are dating a Muslim guy, just ask a question this to your man: How many women in his family have dated men outside their religion? And if he has a sister would he be okay with her dating someone non Muslim?

And before anyone calls me BJP supporter or anything, I want to clarify I'm an agnostic and not a fan of any party.

This is about patriarchal mindset in Islam, this isn't about the people themselves.

I will be marrying my Muslim gf next year under the Special Marriage Act - abroad. India is not safe for interfaith couples and the situation will degrade further.

Nothing. Just Muslims being Muslims

I hate this BJP's dictatorship sometimes,but these clowns proves me wrong everytime. Man, there's a reason why these cowards are poor mostly

What do think you will get out of this post

Post in India and usi sub man

If they have video taped you be safe because they must have uploaded that to their private radical telegram channels.

Khilone waala rakh le darane ke kaam aayega

I know this is a serious question and everything but the way OP gives exact location with star houses 😂👏👏 If you are filing a complaint, police can easily get footage from these houses hopefully.

incelic sullehs seething, like always.

Hindu dictatorship need of time 🔥

This is horrific. Esp mumbai. Am so sorrry

Ye in log ka yehi harkat rehta hai bhai samajh jao

Jaan pyari toh kalti maar le .... You are just 24.. will get tons of good girl

Is your love really worth all these hassles? I'll get downvoted but just look at it. The whole situation. You're 24 she's 20. If anything goes wrong you'll be facing the consequences. She is from a conservative family who will never allow you both to stay together peacefully so is this what you're opting for? They wearing skull caps was a legit detail and hatemongers straight up said you're BJP IT cell.... can't you see the negativity in their perspective? You have a family. They raised you with love and care. You dating this girl puts all of it in the risk of getting unnecessary headache in your life. I'm 30. You're 24. You have a life ahead. Career. Growth in life. See and experience new things. You really think with a partner who's from conservative family will allow you to reach new heights in life? Compromising your entire life for a woman who might not reciprocate in the way you want may leave you in dismay. I am speaking this out of experience. I have had my best friend dating a Muslim girl for 2 years. When marriage came up. He agreed to marry in both the cultural ways. But she wanted the kids born to be Muslim and they HAD TO BE BROUGHT UP LIKE MUSLIMS. She won't budge on this condition and they had to break up. So you think about your future. Today you're strolling and you face this discrimination. Tomorrow you'll be married.....are you really up for this? Think about it. I might be wrong. But my experience isn't.

Welcome to the right side 🙂

You are lucky they didn't beat you up as I have witnessed this in my city where their population is more than 30%.

Sab chutiye

Don't date women close to their houses. Avoid conservative clothing and people. And tell your girlfriend to develop a spine.

Isn’t this common in India? I’m half Indian but my family lives outside India.

Come on man... They are peacefuls.... They are allowed to do anything in india

This is why i want to leave this country, peoppe love to indulge in other's life

She is dating Kaffir, you will be forced to covert or leave her

Very sad but this is ultimate truth on how intolerant the other side is but always blame kafirs for anything . People here will never talk ill of the secular side that abused you guys. They won’t get to the bottom to see where the problem lies! Those guys have read religion well. You have not read all the chapters of the book. What are they referring to you as “kafir” is picked up from the same book. These secular people keep blaming majority kafirs on the other side to hide their criminality all over the world. Very unfortunate gullible wiles fall for their agenda. Only solution to this problem is , everyone should read the books the criminals are referring to. There should be debate , discussion and brainstorming sessions in public. Let everyone accept what’s truth and what’s not. People should develop scientific and logical mind and accept ultimate truth rather than falling prey to religious extremists.

Kaane ke neeche do lagaao and tell them to stick to being a puncture waala instead of a maulana.

Stay away from jih@dis, dude. They are a ticking time 💣. The day government changes, they won't think twice before sar tan se juda. Find a girl from your community.

Bhai OP , inter religion aate hi sabki phat ke chaar ho jaati hai. People try to hide it, but u can see by many different comments here . Very few will call out the core issue here. These things have been normalised for very long . Hum sabhi ne isme thoda bohat yogdaan Diya toh hai.

What with this film actors names. Is it their actually a house location?

Yeah leave her you idiot . Otherwise there will actually be alot more of this

Point is clear you are a kafir indeed. What if this reaches to her house? Conservative family so is she sacred?

Ek baat clearly samajh jao yaa toh pyaar Karo ya phir Karo he maat aur agar ek Muslim ladki ke sath pyar hua hai toh phele usko puch lo ki voh kya chahti hai uske baad he agey bado. Now what is happening here is like the girl is either backing off because she is not so much involved into you or she knows what those Muslims can do to you and so she is afraid about the consequences. This should have been thought and discussed by you people way before you entered into a relationship. These days you can't trust anyone. Even if someday you were to marry this is going to happen. If she is also into you then go to the court and seek protection. Tell them how much you love each other and from whom you might need protection from

My dear Indian brother, do you thought it is easy to love ? Even if she was Hindu and if she felt someone from his locality identified her what do you think her response would ?

You could have just walked towards SRK house just for safety, there is always security outside his house.

Bit normal nowadays in India , because of appeasement politics.

I have came across a feature which may help your girlfriend and you , Samsung phone there is setting in which if you press power button for like 2-3 times repeatedly it will automatically dial to emergency number.

My advice would be move out of India

Just thinking.. if your gf is from a conservative family, how come she was out of the house at 1:30am?

Well, you have no options apart from voting. Did you vote?

Im sorry to hear this, but I'm confused what gave away your faith?

I am so sorry that you had to go through this. But I don't think you should put yourself and your gf in a vulnerable position by walking in the streets late at night and that too past midnight?

Please take care and randomly hurling abuse is so common here, I hope you guys can get past this horrific and galvanising experience.

Listen boy , you're Young

Don't Get Into the Trap of Conversion shit

Abb tu fridge ko ladki Mai daal. Reverse psychology xD

Sorry that it happened to you and your girlfriend OP, I cannot provide any legal advice and I know it's not the right thing but from my experience it's better to not wear burka when going for a stroll and again going from my experience it's also better to not retaliate against them as they have a good amount of radical goons backing them and sometimes they've got connections with the cops too.

Someone close to me was also beaten up by these radical shit for brains bunch, although here it was a group called bajrang dal, they slapped the Muslim girl and beat up the Hindu boy pretty bad. It's not right but in the end you both need to be careful about it as these pos are roaming everywhere and since she is muslim, those chapris might have already captured her image which would soon make its way to her family and her family being conservative here doesn't help either.

I wish you both the best as inter religious couple face many difficulties even after marriage in india.

Edit: maybe not going without burka is not a good thing either, as you said her family is conservative and it would have the entire family ass blasted for that.

For now maybe it's better to lay low then try to land jobs in a same city far away from her parents, because as soon as parents feel their daughter is flying too high they will just marry her off to a 30y/o guy from Saudi or Dubai.

Dude if you are not a Muslim just fucking break up, she won't take a stand when it comes to marriage and you will fed with biryani to others.