Hi, Friends. I'm new to this subreddit. I honestly just never really thought about joining a subreddit for this condition until today. But I have a question. I know many who suffer from Hidradenitis Suppurativa have found some relief after giving up dairy. My wife said that she thought it would be a good idea to try this and see where it goes. Tomorrow, it will be one week since starting this new diet. I have a question for those of you who may have tried it.
My question is, how much dairy do I actually need to give up to be considered "dairy free"? I am not drinking milk, eating cheese or yogurt, and I'm staying away from anything with cream. However, I'm unsure about butter. I got an excellent butter substitute (Melt... It's delicious, by the way). But I was thinking... If I had, say, a cookie that is obviously made with butter, should this still be off limits? This is more complicated than I thought it was going to be!

Any help is appreciated. I just want to try to get ahead of this condition. I've suffered with cystic acne since I was a teenager, and now I'm in my late 30's, and have hardly gotten much relief over the decades. I'm willing to try nearly anything!