My parents were abusive, physically, verbally, I was emotionally neglected my whole life. However, I gaslight myself, constantly, thinking it maybe "wasn't as bad as I remember" and even worse, now that they are older, it hurst to see them need help and not give it to them. I really want to go NC or very very LC with them, but the guilt, eats me alive.
Do you struggle with the guilt of LC or NC? How do you cope with it?
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