Judy Definitely Hates Victoria
I don’t know I watched the doc and it felt like they were treating Victoria how they treated everyone. Of course they have favorites, and they treat those people differently. But I think them just being honest with Victoria about where she stands is the best thing they could have done.
I think Victoria needs an inordinate amount of handholding. And they were just not going to do that for her anymore. Period.
Agreed. I feel like she purposely isolates herself
Her mom isolated her. It’s pretty clear.
Yeah I think so too. There was one part where her mom said that Victoria is well-liked by other groups (where she’s the dance instructor so different dynamic) but she does not know what’s wrong with this group (peers).
Yes. One thing that is so clear about Victoria is how great she is when dealing with the public. She is so warm and genuine when talking to people at the retirement homes, etc. I can imagine she is equally loved as a dance instructor. She hasn’t had the chance to grow socially when it comes to her peers. I kind of relate to her, I didn’t have the best intrapersonal relationships with my peers until later in my twenties and thirties. I was constantly feeling like I was on the edge looking in and struggled with social confidence, and partly because I wasn’t confident in myself. She needs to spread her wings and get out of her awful mother’s thumb.
I completely agree! I am glad she made the move to New York, it definitely helped her in her independence and confidence. Her mom means well but it will stifle her growth and it showed. I am glad you are thriving now :)