Was anyone ever taught how to manage money?

No. I was just told to save, have $50 on me just in case and never get a credit card. I also went without a lot of stuff so as an adult I tend to spend more because I'd rather have things I want than miss out on more. My dad told me I needed to pay off my credit card each month and shamed me for not being in a good financial situation which pissed me off since he didn't teach me any better and is part of the reason I missed out so much in the first place. Mum had no concept of money since her dad paid for everything, but my dad only knew lack and scarcity so would be as cheap as possible and go off at me when I wasn't like that. I once had savings up to $1k but spent most of it going on holidays and haven't gotten back there since. Dad was made redundant from his job when I was 8 and despite his knowledge and skills he only applied for and got jobs in tech support when he could have done other things and had us in a better financial situation instead of fighting with mum about money and taking his stress out on me. I've started reading books about it and doing courses on it so I can get out of the cycle I grew up in and have something better, I just hate that I was taught I could only have a certain amount, I needed to save it in case and basically to miss out on things that I wanted and that other people could have easily. I feel like my parents were punishing me and making me believe i couldn't have more and didn't deserve better because it benefited them. At one point I was the only person in my family with a job and stable income even though it was only $300 per week. mum would pick me up from work and take me to the shops to buy things for dinner and get me to pay for it either asking me or telling me I could, sometimes waiting until we were at the checkout and adding that I could afford it because I was working. No wonder the resentment towards my parents is so high. Mum treated me like a human credit card and dad chose to make life hell and live in stress with mounting bills and maxing out credit cards instead of doing odd jobs to make ends meet. Now he's basically retired and lives off the interest from the money in mum's estate that my brother and I inherit when he dies. I can't really begrudge him that since it's not the core money, he lives simply and mum was mentally unstable so he's had insane stress to deal with since the mid 80s and now dealing with grief and figuring out how to live the rest of his life in peace.