I feel like I'm a constant killjoy. And I can barely receive any treatment, because I'm too triggered or too scared of most of them.
People keep suggesting treatments, calming methods or just fun activities, and I say flat out no to 90% of them. It makes me feel so bad.
I don't want to be difficult. I want to get better. I want to be fun to be around. But I just can't help being opposed to or terrified by what people suggest to me. Almost everything people ask me to do try is connected with bad memories, or it triggers bad physical responses. I'm only hanging on by a thread as it is. I can't handle any more on top of that.
Yeah. It's a nightmare, like being trapped in your own head as the stubborn, stressed out, hurt part of you takes the wheel and enforces strong boundaries that you never set against things that might help, because it's all too much, it's not going to work, it can't work, it can't, it's too much. I don't know what to do in situations like that or I would share, but it's some of the most infuriating and demoralizing things I feel, like I am living by this severe rulebook I can't even begin to read.