Not a predator. Christians evangelise. Vegans criticize. Fetlifers (blank). Idk. But I'm on board.
How do you effectively dogwgistle to find other lifers in the wild? I see signs all over fashion, media, socials.
When I met my new girlfriend I was like "I know what I like do you know what you like?" She has been real sheepish but definitely responds to my kinks. Knowingly or unknowingly idk. If only we could all be healthy and poly and unburden ourselves and find out what we like.