Women, what things do you notice or look for at a man’s apartment that are green flags?
I often chuckle at myself for becoming the foul bachelor frog meme when I’m single. And then feel like a relationship would be nice motivation to finally tidy up.
So maybe the guy is a naturally tidy person when he’s living with someone and the untidiness is just a temporary bachelor thing.
When I had a roommate, my space was immaculate. Now that I live alone, eh, sometimes I clean, sometimes I don't. Having another person to see my stuff everyday is the incentive I need to take care of my space.
Same. I like everything clean and tidy, but I also seem to really benefit from the social motivation to maintain it as such. By myself, it turns into cluttered --> big cleaning day --> cluttered --> big cleaning day. With other people, it stays tidy all the time.
I appreciate when I have friends over because it makes me tidy up better than I would normally. I’ve even had a few friends who’ve had to bail due to illness or other responsibilities, but I have to reassure them when they try to apologize profusely for flaking out because they still did a solid and my apartment looks fantastic.