(18f) Guys will try to get with me who are my dad’s age or even older. i just don’t understand how that would even work out and it does seem a little bit weird to me. Plus my dad wouldn’t like that at all. What do you think about age gaps like that?
Yes, it is weird.
I’m 53 years old, and don’t hang out with these guys, as far as I know.
Same here. Some of my husband's friends date younger women, but at this point younger means 30s or early 40s. The only 18-22-year-olds they are bringing around are their own kids.
I can't imagine the fallout if someone our age started dating a teenager.
An acquaintance of mine had sex with a 15 year old and went to jail for 20 years. Did not get probation at 10 years either. Still in jail. The 15 yo was very promiscuous but in my state it does doesn’t matter. She can’t give consent, it’s rape, and he’s in prison. Boundaries are there for a reason. In my early 30’s, I had a female friend age 26, marry a 52 year old. They had a baby boy as the project failed and we parted ways. She absolutely adored him. It’s possible, but not likely. If I were single, I might seek out someone 10-15 years younger get, but definitely not 30 years.
That’s a pretty judgey way to describe a minor who is a victim. You might want check yourself a bit there friend. Your gross friend is/was a legal adult who made adult adult choices with adult consequences, that is 100% on them.
Ew. I'm in my forties and if a fifteen year old started grinding on me in my sleep, I would throw them off me and call their parents.
Some people will try to justify anything. Gross.
What the fuck are you doing in bed with a teenager in the first place?