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AITA for not giving my aunt a plus 1 to my wedding?
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“Alright, grandma if this is so important to you, her date can take your seat.”
This may be dramatic, but it would certainly get a reaction.
Your aunt can either accept the invitation as it’s presented, or she can be replaced by any number of other potential guests.
You can polity inform her that her invitation is still welcome at this time, but in no way will she be permitted a guest. This is not her event to dictate terms. Give her a short deadline to respond, and then go from there.
Be assertive. This is your wedding to plan, and decisions happen between the bride and groom and no one else.
Nobody overrules the guest list you make.
Every-time you look back at photos (which honestly, won’t be as often and you think now) you will see him and be reminded of this debacle happening now. Don’t let your future wedding photos have this unwanted stranger next to your aunt.
NTA
PS: your dress is really pretty. It’s like simple elegant.
I don’t have a great relationship with my family so I am trying to tip toe around this situation as best as I can so while I would LOVE to tell my grandma she can give up her seat I just know it would make everything a million times worse 😭
And thank you🥹♥️
omg your dress is gorgeous and you look like a dream in it! i'm sorry your family is giving you fits, i hope your wedding day is perfect!
Thank you🥹♥️ I got it off the “on sale” rack and it fits perfect, literally so happy
this is just the sort of good luck to start your new life with!
Here for the profile stalking and beautiful dress!
Love it. Tell the fam to pound sand.