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Gotta admit this was a bit difficult to untangle (suggestion.. don't use "I" as a fake name. The letters are hard enough, but as "I" is a letter AND a word, it makes things a little troublesome).
anyway
Based on what you wrote, you asked permission from the group "hey can we invite 'I'?" to which everyone said "YEs". and then later, privately "lets go on a different trip instead and exclude 'I'". This is one of those situations where if people just spoke up and said "I'd rather not invite 'I' because of reasons". Or , not every friend can go on every trip.
I think it was fine that you asked "can I invite another person". I would have hoped you would have accepted if people said "no".
If they were trying not to cause a kerfuffle by saying yes and then later saying no, well they failed at that.
One hopes people will just learn to voice their opinion when asked, rather than just whisperwhisperwhisper later and get all pissy
NTA