I know the title seems mean but let me explain I've lived alone for 5 years now, and in all that time shes never hinted, asked, or tried to come over to my house I've always had an open door to all family members and she knows this but kind of recently not really but I adopted two cats 6 Ish months ago ( I adopted them in October didn't get them physically in my possession till November). She started saying how she can't come to my house because of her allergies, I stated that she has never been to my house in the past 5 years I don't understand why she's kicking up a fuss now. But now she's whining that she's never seen my house and how could I alienate her from my life like this. I don't get it