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AIO people only talk to my husband when Iām right there
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I (female) have refused to hang out with one of male partner's friends (male) after we did an escape room and friend refused to acknowledge anything I said. Totally mad, as I'm the escape room veteran. Only escape room I've ever not done within scheduled time. Partner noticed it at least. I've not said they can't he friends, just said I won't be joining anything unless it is a partner bday thing with loads of other people, or equivalent. Fuck that shit. Fuck those knobs.
Edit for those comments saying the veteran escape room thing makes me a dick. Escape rooms are supposed to be about communicating with your team and utilising everyone's skills to solve stuff. Sometimes, just a new set of eyes is useful when you've been staring at something for ages. That's the most important thing I've learned from escape room experiences.
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Why men don't open up to women 101 ššš "I don't take as much offense." Didn't he tell you the problem but you're still offended? Damn shame
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"He has second child syndrome bad" "He craves the attention of an older male model."
"He wasn't self aware enough to understand his behavior" but when you got him drunk he was comfortable explaining what he knew clearly bothered you? Your problem is that he won't stop.
I didn't say you needed to be his friend. You can't even respect his struggle and give him space. It's not about you but you're still offended. You don't look at him when he ignores you and go "damn that's sad" you really think to yourself "He's doing it again! I don't want to be your friend away!" Childish as hell.
"He almost seems jealous of me" because you're taking his big brother away? Clearly he's fucked in the head and you being a crybaby about it isn't going to help anyone. You said you're avoiding him, I hope you aren't talking shit about him to people. Not everyone can magically heal through trauma princess.