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My gf and her ex still call each other “babe”, am I over reacting thinking that’s messed up?
😂😂
not an ex, not your gf lol you are the side guy
honestly OP, reread ur own post at least 3 more times. you definitely don’t need our help on this one😂i’ll be waiting for the update edit 😆
For reals 😂
Reels*
yeah, we'll be waiting 😂
Yeah, that’s a problem.
Leave
Exs are exs for a reason. Yet they are still messing around. She's a ho bro. Don't expect to take that
Does she call other people 'babe' as well? Cause I've called my sister, my niblings, random people I don't know 'babe' so if she does that then it's not a problem. If the only person she ever calls 'babe' is her ex then it could be a problem...or she doesn't remember his name.
Yeah if it's only him that's a red flag.
Yo, I’m a female and I call girls babe.. but I would NEVER say that to a man. And why are they communicating that frequently anyways? Kids or not; don’t call him babe.
I swear to God I'm about to unfollow this sub. The cumulative IQ of everyone who posts here cannot be any higher than 50.
It’s 95% rage bait at this point. Poorly written by teenagers looking to farm some karma
Nope just an emotionally damaged 30 year old for this one 🙃
Dude... We're all emotionally damaged in some way so that's no excuse for your question. You should know better by now.
It’s the blow jobs I would be worried about
And the anal.
She ain’t your girl, you were just in line
Kick his babe to the curb
Get rid of her
SHES FOR THE STREETS
He can call her Babe, and she can call him Paul Bunyan.
It's messed up dude.
Dump her
Looks like it's time for you to start a new girl babe
Time to dump her
Wait.. WHAT lol!!
To be fair, I call inanimate objects "Dude".
Messed up you should be her next ex
First of all I don't think you are overreacting if that is how you feel about it, then that is understandable considering some implications about the word, but you should also say something about it if you haven't yet. Politely ask them to not do that and express why you don't like it, then if they keep it up and don't respect how you feel, I would agree on it being messed up.
Also just a question for the comments: Why are y'all assuming that OP is a guy... Like am I missing something? As far as I noticed, the gender of the OP was never mentioned.
I can confirm that I am a girl and my girlfriend is also a girl.
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Ok?
You're missing the point here. Person above said nobody stated the SO's gender but OP said it was their gf so stated gender is girl.
91% of people identify as not LGBT and use correct grammar for their pronouns. Statistics is on the side of normal people.
So LGBT are not normal people? I don’t think normalcy is defined by sexuality. The statistic is on the side of educated people. What is not normal is thinking that you are somehow better than someone else just because of who they are attracted to or how they wish to be addressed, we aren’t in the 1800’s anymore. Accept the fact that homosexual people are also “normal” people. The only type of people I personally would refer to as not being normal, cannot accept diversity and live in fear of people that are somewhat different than themselves. For example (a racist or homophobic person, is not a normal person.
“eDucAtEd”
I have a STEM degree as well as certifications and training in multiple fields including nuclear.
Well then act like it
I am. You are a brainwashed boomer incapable of accepting the truth. The world you grew up in is a lie, you were bred in the comfort zone of early stage corporate communism. You believe that things like fairness and equity truly matter to anyone (much less the people running this world). Your very definition of fair is based on a rules of an experiment that is about to cease to exist. Now that the zeitgeist of evolution is shifting towards global multinational corporate organisms you will quickly be discarded as useless by your local ai administrative node and likely recycled.
First of all I’m not a boomer. Secondly I am sure there’s a lot more truth in my life than you’ll ever know. I am however incapable of allowing anyone to control my thoughts or actions thus proving I have not been brainwashed. Corporate communism is an oxymoron. Communists want to abolish money, hierarchy, and the state. Corporations are organizations authorized by the state whose job is to make money for their shareholders, who sit at the top of a capitalist hierarchy. Companies are some of the most capital-oriented and, therefore, anti-communist entities worldwide. I believe that people have a right to be treated fairly. Your attempt at sounding intelligent is failing. The words you are spewing out are nothing more than incomplete nonsense much as diarrhea might spew from an asshole, such is the bullshit spewing from your insignificant brain, it stinks of feces, but it’s fitting for someone with a brain full of shit. There is no such thing as a local ai administrative node, so I will not be recycled but you on the other hand will likely be categorized as meaningless piece of shit and flushed into a cesspool of other people’s shit where you likely belong, so all of you pieces of shit can be together and collectively be a river of putrid, rotten, vile decomposition and cause a shit stain wherever you go, as you are the excrement of the earth.
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“Beau’s response is fairly boilerplate. Corporate communism is an oxymoron. Communists want to abolish money, hierarchy, and the state. Corporations are organizations authorized by the state whose job is to make money for their shareholders, who sit at the top of a capitalist hierarchy. Companies on the list are some of the most capital-oriented and, therefore, anti-communist worldwide.”
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Anyway that’s not a scholarly article so yawn. Corporate Communism is real.
That BS dude. Are they still together? WTF? What's your status anyway to her?
I’m her girlfriend, and everyone in her social circle knows it, so it just makes me think they are secretly still in love with each other.
I don't think so unless they are banging and I don't think they are. It's rude and disrespectful..Number 1 she needs to stop saying that immediately and number 2 when he says it she should tell him to stop calling her babe because she feels it's disrespectful to you. If she can't do that tell her to hit the road.
Wow
Should post this in what the fuck is wrong with me.
What in the actual fuck. I won’t even ask why she still interacts with her ex and I’ll assume you’re in your 20’s. Short answer…. It’s highly inappropriate. That’s a term of endearment.
Time to break up with her
get out, babe
Yes, that's messed up. Yes, you should break up. You're the side person, she still obviously loves her "ex".
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It’s messed up that they’re even still in contact while you are together. Run while you can
Times to find your own "babe"
Hell No your not!!
oh man your the other man
Ha ha dude they banging.
Yeah that's messed up. They shouldn't be calling each other that. Even if it's just a habit. It's disrespectful towards you.
Break up A S A P or you gonna be in an open relationship without knowing it
Op is the side piece and didn’t know it 😔🤧
Yuck
no you're not. she's still screwing him
Overreacting. It’s just a name now, not a term of endearment.
Babe , I’d rip his dick off and beat him with it 🤣.
You are not over-reacting, one or the other or both have never gotten over the relationship, she needs to stop this or you need to end it
Why is the ex even still around babe?
Try calling his current one "babe" too
Call him babe too.
Establish dominance. And call your ex sweety.
Find a better woman, one that has respect.
Maybe have a conversation with your gf about your feelings
No
Everyone is jumping to “break up with her”! Firstly, have you confronted her about it and told her it’s inappropriate and hurtful? Communication here is vital to come to the right conclusion. I think her reaction to your confrontation would be telling in it of itself.
Guys… I call my ex gf babe too. We’re lesbians if that makes a diff and I call her that platonically. We’re great friends and that’s how I speak with my friends. For context, I also call my best friend (of 15 years) “baby” on the regular. Ex: “Morning baby how u feeling today❤️” (she is chronically ill so I probably text her that like every day if not every second day)
I speak to my female friends in that way and always have… idk why but It’s platonic I swear!! BUT it can certainly be an indication of lingering feelings in some (most) cases…. And probably is in this case.
I still say have a conversation and see what comes of it. If she gets defensive or pushes back, that’s not your girl.
Not overreacting at all, kinda weird. I call my kids babes but my ex lost that when we because exes.
THAT IS NOT OKAY! DUMP HER
Updateme!
Does she call everyone babe? Cause I do, literally everyone (including my exes who are all great friends of mine now!) If not, then it’s sus.
Babe, you're a distraction.
It is very messed up. Set fire to that dumpster.
Re-read your own title. Pretty self-explanatory, right? 🤔
Start calling all women babe and see how she feels…
Not overreacting to be worried about it, but dumping your GF before asking her about it instead of the internet would be.
Another clueless side guy. Fascinating
Messed up
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It's messed up babe.