Is it weird for a 40 yo to date a 25 yo?
Yes...mostly because the life outlook at 25 is different from 40. 25 yr olds still do not know themselves as much as an older person would. Around 28-30 is when we get a better understanding of ourselves.
Thank you. People that date really young are weird. The “it’s legal” crowd give me the creeps, like the law is the only thing stopping you from dating even younger? It just feels predatory. The older person should know the younger person will 100% have a different view on things once they’re older. So even if the younger person consents, it still feels like you’re taking advantage of their inexperience. I see 21 year olds and very young adults and never think I want to have sex with them
You are not considering someone like myself who didn’t progress well through my twenties. It makes way more sense for me at 31 to date a younger woman who has been on track with everything. Sure there are woman my age around the same level of maturity but it’s statistically more rare.
I agree. I spent my entire 20’s grinding harder than most people ever have in their lives. I finally have the trappings of success(physical, financial, etc.) and the level of attention from women became less than subtle. They wanted nothing to do with me when my mattress was on the floor and I wouldn’t take them out to eat. My current girlfriend just turned 20; I am 29.