Tldr at the end cause this is a rant. So growing up I have never been able to digest meat. I have been vegetarian most of my life due too getting sick from meat and it over all just being disgusting. But my parents have never accepted this.
My mom would constantly have me eat food that had meat in it and I would get sick. As I got older she stopped with chunks of meat but would still put in chicken broth or something. This would lead to stomach cramps and spending the evening pooping my brains out.
My dad is more respectful and doesn't try to trick me into eating anything but does constantly make comment's like: "it's not healthy you can't eat that", "we have canines for a reason, we are supposed to eat meat", and all the other common complaints meat eaters have.
I went vegan more recently as I had gone off to college and been fully in control of what I eat. I have been lactose intolerant for many years and it was just getting worse as I got older. It made sense to stop eating animal products since I can't digest them anyway and forcing myself is just weird. Plus all the issues with the industry as a whole helps make it easier to not support the cruelty.
Well I have graduated and moved back in with my mom. She is planning to throw a graduation party for me. I recommended a few vegan places that I love and she made every excuse in the book to not go to any of those. So we are going some place where the have to "special make" a vegan option for me. We all know it's going to be rice and grilled vegetables (with soy sauce if I'm lucky). And my mom is upset that I'm not excited to eat an afterthought of a meal (more likely a snack). And the topic of a cake was brought up. She wants a Costco cake. Well obviously I can't have that since milk and eggs. And so I'm "ruining my graduation party by being difficult" and I should "just not be vegan for one day" since "it's only one day".
Luckily, I have a loving partner who is going to take me to my favorite vegan restaurants and buy me a cake from a vegan bakery so I can go to the car to eat.
It still sucks, this party is to celebrate something I did and I don't have any say in it.
Tldr: Mom is throwing a graduation party for me but I'm "ruining my graduation party by being difficult" and I should "just not be vegan for one day" since "it's only one day".