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Honestly, join groups! I play d and d, just starting archery soon too. Volunteer!! So many places need volunteers, great way to meet people! Book clubs, poetry, karaoke, sports or art! So many things to join as a single just to mingle! I have a friend who is 30 and in the same boat…. Get out there!!
I met my wife through DnD and archery!
And here I though my advice sucks😂
Thanks man! Know how I can find a good dnd group? Also, any recommendations for clubs that you personally liked?
That depends, I don’t know if your even in my country 😂
US, more specifically southern part of the US
Well, in Canada where I’m from, I play d and d with some work colleagues and my bf in person. As for clubs, I enjoy the gym, archery, dancing freakier clubs, also play MTGA online and I used to enjoy tikwondo.. I forget how to spell it😳
Lol all good 😂 Love MTGA tbh. Got mythic last season playing domain ramp. Though I don't know if I can pick someone up playing magic honestly lol
Introvert Pickup-Dating Hotspots: - Book Bars - Speed-Dating events - Anime or Comic Cons (Verify she isn’t a Minor there first) - Reddit-Threads for R4R wherever you live
The rest is Online Dating related
Ask a more social friend to host an friends gathering event of some sort. You can meet each other's friends in a nice setting where you know other people. Invite some of your friends too. Even if it just a FB invite or something.
Just because you're shy doesn't mean you should get a pass.
Put in the same types of effort others put into curating a social circle, or don't expect the rewards of having one.
Therefore, the best places are anywhere that you found someone attractive enough to approach, or of course friends of friends.
Lol I know it doesn't. I'm a home body so I figured I'd reach out and get some advice on where to find places other than a comic book store 😂
Location strategies are stupid.
You may see a beautiful woman anywhere. You just have to go for it wherever you are.
I met my wife in a college sports car club. This was way before the Internet when the only way to meet people was to get out there.
The place where people with your interests go. I mean, which kind of nerd are you hoping to find?
Honestly, the type that likes to stay at home and read a good book or play game on her PC. Likes to go on d&d campaigns, plays tabletop games like magic, cosplays or draws if she likes being creative. That kinda girl but I know it sounds pretty generic when I say it out loud 😅
Well, then, going to your Local Game Shop seems like a good place to start. =) Maybe a book club too, if those are still around.
Either dating apps (how I met my wife) or go do things that you enjoy, when other people are there. Eventually you will get to know the other people there (how I met the only other girl I dated before my wife, also how I met most of my friends)
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Thanks ☺️
your welcome....wishing you best of luck fellow internet stranger
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