Okay so I’ve been seeing this guy for a month and we recently slept together tonight. I just came out of a toxic long term relationship, sex within that relationship was amazing, but we argued like no tomorrow hence why we ended things. Anyway I started seeing someone new and he is amazing, such a gentleman, treats me like gold, he’s attractive and just like everything on paper.

We slept together and now I have the ick! He was so passionate, like real breathy, all like whispering sweet nothings and shit. And it gave me the ick big time. Like I’m used to just fucking to put it plainly and this man was clearly making love, and I just have a massive ick now. How on earth do I get over this? I have feelings for the guy but sexually that was just a massive ick for me, it was so vanilla, all romantic etc.

I have no idea what to even say to the guy now, I don’t want to hurt his feelings. Or be a hit and quit it, I’m just blown over at how I’ve got the ick so suddenly, I did not have the slightest ick before this moment haha!