Women - Have you been a boy's first? How was it?
I took one of my ex bf’s virginity but he didn’t tell me till after we were broken up,I was flabbergasted. I also took it while we watched Harold and Kumar go to White Castle and specifically the scene where everybody is farting in the bathroom 😭 it just started playing and we were in the middle of it so we couldn’t turn it off 😭…
That’s an epic story for that guy if he’s man enough to make a joke out of it. Also oddly, I feel like this is the type of humor that would be shown as the sex scene in Harold and Kumar lol 😂
When I was in my ho phase, mid 20s, I slept with one guy who I didn't know was a virgin until after (but in hind sight there were signs) and two guys who'd only been with one other woman once. Not a huge distinction between those, they were too excited to be good in bed. Which is endearing I suppose. My only regret is I wish the virgin would have told me. I could have given more time and direction if I'd known. Not to make it special or whatever but just like anything you do the first time you're super overwhelmed and out of your element. It was just a random hookup to me. But to him it was an all new experience.
Cool story bro
sigh I miss my ho phase - good times!
Yes, when I was 27 I met a lovely 23 year old dude in my blues dancing class and we became friends. A year later he unexpectedly became homeless ( he was here on a student visa and flunked out of uni so no longer had the right to stay in halls and could only be in the country at all for a couple of weeks before being deported back to Thailand) so I let him stay with me.
I wasn’t planning to do anything sexual as that would seem like taking advantage of his vulnerability but he broached the topic of sexuality and told me he was a virgin, which I was mildly surprised about (he was shy and had previously told me he was inexperienced but I didn’t realise how inexperienced). We ended up giving each other head massages on my sofa and things escalated from there, with me asking him every step of the way “are you sure you really want this? I understand if you’re saving it for someone special!”
We had a really nice time together. I enjoyed the change of being the dominant, caring party during sex, and it was really cute how strongly he reacted to everything- I clenched my vaginal muscles around his dick and he actually gasped, it was adorable.
I have. It was…meh. It wouldn’t have been fair to set the bar real high though.
I used to only fuck virgins. I knew that no matter how many girls they fucked or who they married, he would tell his sons about the surprisingly big breasted high school bad girl that rocked their worlds. No regrets
Oof. Flip the genders on this one and.... sheesh...
It would be weird if you flipped the genders, especially the part about having big breasts
Don't body shame me dude. I worked hard for these pecs.
Well that is a story to tell the sons for all time
We were the same age and it was consensual so 🫨
Sure sure. But the fact that you slept with them SPECIFICALLY so they would never forget you is kinda predatory. Not the worst kind, but still.
If a dude says he exclusively slept with virgins because of how special a woman's first time is and that way they would remember him forever.... I don't think we'd be very happy with that dude.
If a girl would tell me years later that they slept with me SPECIFICALLY because I would never forget them, I'd be a bit pissed honestly.
They’re friends would recommend me lol 😂 they were football players I was 105 lbs soaking wet. No one was forced and I was a horny girl willing to find a solution to both of our problems. You’re reading too much into it.
Could be 100% on me.
Not just you, a bit cringey this way and even more so if the genders were reversed.
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