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Her friend already knows what to do next in case he needs a new horn.
Wait bobo ako sa english, her friend ba or his friend?
Tingnan mo profile ni OP. May putotoy yan.
Theyre both male right? Kasi sabi nung nasa taas ko "her friend"
May BF si OP, bisexual daw siya. Lalake si friend.
Very trashy.
lol obviously
Onga, lalake ba si OP or babae?
He’s gay
Ahhh makes sense now
HAHAHAHA
Huhuhu same i didnt get it at first. Lalo na i was thinking bat nagbayad, i mean id accept it even without pay??? Nyahah sorry
oww..
OH DAMN. THEY DOCKED.
Antagal ko naghanap ng legit na analization sa comments p*ta😂
Si OP nagbayad nalang.
What makes you this OP is a “her”?
Kahit aq dn nmn papayag dn😤😤
Ako nga may kilala 150 yung usapan pero 50 lang inabot ang ending nag suntukan sila HAHAHAHAHAHA
At hendiikawyun? Promise? 😅
Hindi syempre hahahaha di ko pagpapalit prendshep sa halagang 150 pero kung same kay op na 5digits e gora lang kung kami lang naman dalawa makaka alam
May kwento talaga tong si u/HendiAkoThisPramis e😏 HAHAHA JK
Hahaha may kilala lang pero wala akong ganyang kwento 👌
Anyways sa maging ok kayo ng prendship mo
Well probably apologise? I don't know I'm a virgin but you know your friend better than us. So maybe start slow with the apology, admit you weren't in a right state of mind and that doesn't excuse your actions( you gotta be the bigger person here, it's hard but it's better than losing a friend) then actually stay true to your word and maybe buy them their favourite food and just slowly let it stay in the past or (if you're willing and you know your friend) try to see where you can take this maybe a potential friend with benefit or a future S.O.. but ultimately and to be safe, apologize. And be the person they always enjoyed being with.
Edit: wait actually is this a guy paying a guy or a woman paying a guy?
His straight and im bi sorry for not making it clear
Hes not straight.
It's only gay if the tips touch. Bro it's fine.
Only if he said "no homo"
Dude probably has his socks on. He is in the clear.
Anymore?
Anyway.
There's a lot of gay for pay people though
“20 bucks is 20 bucks”
hahhaa why do i feel like it's not the friend's first invitation? also, for new tires? oh it's a hustle all right.
Sucking dick is all hustle all right
Oh bi buy bi bye bye bye. Backstreetboyz
Nsync po yun
🤣🤣🤣
Ohshh buti na lang hindi Menudo o Jackson5. Shheesz my age revealed
Oh sheez this makes me laugh dunno ang benta lang saakin 😂
Bi?
hindi straight friend mo
maybe buy them their favourite food
The friend: Oh my god he's falling in love with me
wala nang balikan to normal yan
Idk how western movies and tv shows portray this situation as common. Maybe sa culture nila
common pre, kaya nga may taboo sa amin about "catching feelings". Separate ang mindset between dating and doing it
individualism vs collectivism.US and PH respectively
Ph tends to act collectively and adhere to established social norms more often than people in the west.
Are you both males? Kasi if ganun I think it would be very hard to repair the relationship. Kasi tatatak na sa isip niya na pumatol siya sa kapwa lalaki for the money lalo na kung straight siya.
The money complicated the situation. Had it not for the money involved it would just be an ‘adventure’ between friends and one or two weeks of awkwardness. But the money destroyed your friendship. Gago ka for offering him money for sex and gago siya for accepting. In other words pareho kayong gago.
So do you mean it would be less awkward and more convincing that it was for fun kung no money involved?
You said you were bi, and he was straight. You did sides and bj’s because no one wanted to bottom. I don’t know why you’re still wondering it’s awkward.
Even if your friend consented, it’s not gonna go back to normal. Are you sure wala kang hidden pagnanasa sa friend mo? Bakit di mo ma-control sexual urges mo? You remind me of my old friend I cut off when he took advantage of me when I was drunk 🤨
You are an asshole for offering money to your FRIEND in exchange of your sexual needs. It’s really very immature and rude of you, kasi if a friend does that to me, i will really be offended kasi pinagnanasahan mo ba ako secretly and the fact na you don’t know how to control your urges when I was around?
That’s just my opinion, you brought this to yourself, now you have to deal with the consequences. Fuck around and find out.
Most honest post
Storytime about your "old friend".
bading eh nyahahaha
I think you have to be honest with yourself first. Was it really just because you were drunk and horny? People who are drunk and horny would just straight out ask the person if they could have sex. Money wouldn't be involved.
You have to be extra careful and patient with him if you are really friends. We wouldn't understand how he feels right now. I don't believe he really needed the money for new tires. That was most likely a cover up of his actual feelings of confusion, regret, and possibly despair. He's trying to reason with himself. Gaslighting himself a bit that it's okay since he's going to use the money for a necessity. The possible reasons I could immediately think of for his acting off: (1) confusion with his sexuality (2) guilt of accepting money for sex
If you're really good friends, apologize to him as sincerely as possible, whether in person or through chat. You have to take responsibility for placing money in your friendship due to lust. It's a hard pill to swallow but you have to acknowledge it for acceptance.
100% agree that the friend is bi-curious. Straight guy ako and call me homophobic pero for sure mandidiri ako just thinking about touching another man's dick let alone let another guy jerk me off. Kahit sampalin mo pa ako ng 100 million pesos di ko gagawin yan unless siguro i am dirt poor na wala nang makain. But for new tires? Ang babaw naman that's not even considered a necessity. That's like kinda convincing himself na di siya gay by telling himself he just did it for financial gain where in fact what he benefitted is not really that important
Well you can't speak on BEHALF of all straight guys out there. Napaka-makapangyarihan ang pera, and we all have different tendencies and decisions na gagawin ang lahat para lang makuha yan.
There are a lot of things people in general do before resorting to such actions.
Absolutely
I would do it if my daughter needed braces...
FYI: You’re not homophobic if you don’t like other guys touching you sexually. It’s your preference and boundaries
It would be homophobic if you tell gays that they’re gross because they touch each other dicks.
Fwb na kayo nyan OP
Whats fwb?
Friend, wheels, and benefits
witty k jan😝
Friends with benefits
Ohhh hopefully not
Echusera si OP lol
Magkano ba pinaguusapan natin dito
Lol i believe that doesn’t matter but to give you an idea its 5digits
danggg to be fair i understand why your friend agreed. Not saying it’s good but i understand
money is money bro
new set of tires, kasama reserve
"Im not gay but $20 is $20" moment.
Gulong daw edi 6-12k?
If michelin pilot sports, thats easy 15k per tire = 60k for a set 🤣
mahal nman sana worth it haha
Next time don't drink and dive 😕
*Drink and ride
Guess you need to be honest with him this time, say all the things that you've done was wrong and it's due to alcohol and horniness. Be sorry for what you've done and don't expect that he well forgive you that fast, in short hope for the best nalang OP ! BIG HUGS FOR YOU
P.S: DON'T BE STOOPID OKAY ?? DRINK MODERATELY
Yeah will do, just waiting for the right moment
Don't wait for the right moment bruh, do it as early as you could. Maybe it will help you to salvage what can be salvage
His not here anymore, is chat an option to apologize?
Yes but ask for a chance to have a decent to with him personally, I'm kinda want to smack the idiot shit out of you right now Op
That's friends with actual benefits🤣
You can apologize pero OP, bantayan mo sarili mo next time. In a way, na-coerce mo siya and it's borderline creepy. You have those tendencies.
Nakipag sex ako dati for 500. I didnt felt good after. Tooked me a long time to get over it.
No turning back once you go brokeback. Now he knows you got money. And it would be hard to turn him down..
Just pretend nothing happened.
Eto ah, im really honestly curious sa ganyang setup. Like you said hes a straight and youre bi. Papaano pag ganyan? Sino ang papasok sino ang magpapapasok? Totoong tanong. Pasensya na, pero wala talaga akong idea. For me as a straight, hindi ko talaga maimagine na ako ang papasok o ako ang papasukan. kinikilabutan ako /showerthoughts ata dapat tong tanong ko. Lol
No one wants to bottom so we did sides and bjs
Is he doing bj too? What do you mean by sides?
Nah i only did it sides is jerking off while laying next to each other
for new tires? ganon kababa tingin niya sa katawan niya, damn that’s sad
Wait, I have to ask:
...tires for ..?
It's not really your fault. You offered, he accepted. Some people here blame you but it's his choice too, wasn't it? He could have said no and left you instead. He might be curious too.
Cmon man, there was a manipulation and continuous talking after the friend declined under the influence of alcohol.
But still consent was given in EXCHANGE for high amount.
He caved in, didn't he? It was his choice and he has to live with it. He could have said no even with the incessant begging and talks. He could have backed away. I get that Op is guilty and he should be responsible but at the end of the day it takes two to have sex or sides or whatever. It happened because they wanted it to happen even if the other guy wasn't willing at first. At the very least siguro nga is he was curious or interested or his libido was high so ayun.
NO. It is his fault. He took advantage of the guy's weakness (in need of money for new tires). Alam ni OP yung ginagawa niya even while drunk since he even negotiated. Nagi-guilty siya ngayon kasi most probably he wasn't expecting the aftermath.
Nope they're both adults, aren't they? They are not kids anymore. Besides the friend knows that he is bi. It's the guilt that's eating him up. They should face the consequences of their doing. Guy took the offer and agreed. As far as in concerned base sa story nya is he wasn't aware of the new tires prior to their escapade. He was guilty pero the guy was okay with it yes? He's just paranoid over their mostly likely tainted friendship which he had weighed in first in the first place. Sex is between two people kahit na may money involved or wala so both of them are at fault. Kung mas matimbang Ang friendship nila they should not have done in the first place. Both took advantage of each other Naman. He made the first move lang which imho is kinda stupid.
Well? Was it hot? Was he hot? Hahahha kwento mo naman. Oks lang yan relationship niyo, baka in the end gusto niya pala ng more from you. At least he knows available ka din if he ever wants to… experiment
Dagdagan pa natin: Daks ba or Juts?
Huy Hahahaha
Good to know na okay kayo. Anyways, meron bang extended version ng story? HAHAHA JK... 👀
I think hes fine with it, no straight guy would allow that to happen for just new tires.
Isang putok kapalit ng gulong. Niiiiice
"wait, you guys are getting paid?"
if you were a guy and the friend a girl the comments would be much much harsher. What you did is borderline rapey - he was drunk and you coerced him with money. He's straight so if his mind was clearer he would not have consented
Open for business po.
Hindi na yata tatawag yung HR sabi we'll get back to you huhuhu.... 😢
pay him.more.to be your.friend.since pwede naman pala sya bayaran. 👍🏻
Daming judger sa comments.
Uhm, you can still sort of maintain the friendship but the awkwardness will probably always be there from now on.
Gulong sa kama para sa bagong gulong. Glad things still worked out in the end.
good that things worked out for both of you. hopefully, you did not kiss para less awkward hahahaha
Everybody happy naman ata? Hehe
msg me, may kilala akong papapalag din
nako awkward nga un, though di ko naman jinujudge gender mo, pero baka prang napilitan n lng c friend mo dahil nga friend ka nya? at baka atraight girl din ang gusto nya kaya gnun nging reaction nya nung nahimasmasan sya... eto ay sa aking perspective lang.
Tinurbo si Susan ng kanyang Kaibigan. Step-friend what are doing? Hahahahah
lol ang libog mo bro haha
Are you bestfriends ba? Gaano ka deep yung friendship niyo kasi like let’s say your bestfriends then you and him need to have that conversation or else akward malala and it may cause misunderstanding sa inyo. Nangyari na eh. All you can do now is let him know na it’s just pure lust nothing more. Just say it. Just do it.
ayyy, background music: that's what friends are for,,, for good times and bad times, I'll be on your side forevermore... lols
Was it good?
are you the girl or your griend is the girl?
There was no girl in the story.
oh no
Kung ako friend mo matatawa ako hahahaha
"Saan aabot and bente pesos mo" mument
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you will always be the "tires(dami din nabili nya)" in his life. :)
he + he
Cap
People tend not to have romantic relationships with friends because it would be very akward when it doesn't work. This is worse.
Nice. New tires.
uh, i think mas maraming makaka relate sa r/alasjuicy . but for the sake of discussion, it's on him. he probably enjoyed it or cares about you enough not to make you too uncomfortable about it.
Haha it's even better knowing he was a guy. Man is a pokpok now. He bought new tires with dick money. 😂
Haha it's even better
Knowing he was a guy. Man
Is a pokpok now
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Should you be more worried about cheating to your boyfriend 55 days ago?
Guys in the Philippines are gender fluid.. for the right price
That's friendship over. Civil nalang yan if he keeps it.
Ikaw eh you give in to your urges.
Sanaol, pumapayag makipag sex ang straight friend. 😭😏
If na pwetan mo siya sulit yung 5 digits mo. :)
Panigurado natatandaan nya yung ginawa nyo and he consented (as you said, pinilit mo siya, kaya ibig sabihin aware sya) kaya di siguro issue lalo na kung matagal na kayong magkaibigan
Magiging issue yan kung ginalaw mo siya w/o his consent
Wait, kung pumayag sya (may bayad, yes), he's not your friend. Sorry, OP. A true friend wouldn't do that. Baka wala pa dun yung level of friendship nyo.
Binayaran pala nya talaga matinde
Anyway if all is well sa inyo e di its all perfect
sabihin mo fun fun lang naman ginawa nyo wag nya ng gawing big deal HAHAAHHAHAHAHAHA
Bakit pag pinoy reddit walang “I(F20)” to indicate Male or Female? And age? Need pa basahin half to whole story para malaman. 😊
So what do you want us to say?
Tagalugin mo na lang. Myghad the English.
sali ako🥹
Cannot be friends anymore lalu na kung magkakaroon na kayo ng serious relationship sooner or later.
Pay me instead lmaooo
Kung consensual naman, nothing wrong with it.
Homiesexual
Hahaha kating kati si ate
"how do I explain to him that everything happened last night was pure lust and nothing more?"
Pay him again and tell him, "This is for the rest of the car." XD
As long as its consensual and clear na its just sx, you should both be fine. It does not have to ruin your friendship.
Unang-una, are you a male or a female?
Dude last 55 days ago you wrote your ex have had? HIV? Sana youre safe and if youre sleeping around untested, ohnoes. And you said you were laid off from work and no savings. Now im wondering how you paid your friend 5 digits? Oh well to each his own.
Friend mo rin ba si Period . ?
Ako na lang bayaran mo
HAHAHAHAHHAA never fck a friend talaga mhie
Halata nmn na bet mo sya. Well, tanggapin mo nlng kung di na mgiging tulad ng dati relasyon nyo, ganon tlga ang life pero kung wla nmn mgbabago, eh good for you.
Yeah cause he smell so nice
At least natikman mo na lol
that's so sad lmao
thats fucking sad for both of you. cut ties if you both feel awkward even after discussion
I think were good, ill give update maybe after a week or a month to see if were totally okey
goodluck OP. wag mo pilitin kung uncomfortable na para sainyong dalawa. expensive lesson I guess
Sana all pinag paparausan may pocket money pa. 🤣😂
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His friend was drunk too, why should he apologize? You could easily turn this around and make it seem like OP took advantage of him in his not right state of mind. Even worse pa since OP bribed him to do it.
How much did you pay him? lol
Whattttttttt
Cut ties immediately
I cant imagine lusting over a an actual close friend. Given i dont have real hot friends.
But 8m guessing, nature will just naturally takes its course no matter what ypu do abput it. Like if u go back to normal or not.
Let us know after a couple of weeks. Curipus. Hehe
open the conversation with him and talk it out
We did and this is hes exact words “okey lang kelangan ko din bagong gulong eh” and he added “basta walang magbabago”
OP parang magkakaroon ng round 2 ah! Update us please!!!
Yuck
Last na yan mga bro, bagong buhay na tyo. Kapit lang kay Lord
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hahaha ginawang pokpok si prend lol