David Archuleta just posted a sneak peek at his upcoming single on tiktok (no link here because post was removed when I included it) says, "If someone's love means they control me, I'd rather be lonely." Captures a harsh reality of exmo life.

I think it also speaks to why my tbm wife almost divorced me. After I deconstructed, I began trying to control her beliefs. Thank god my therapist called me out for it and helped me change from toxic controlling Mormon mindset to a healthier "empower others" mindset