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Three different women have approached me and my date recently to tell her “she could be doing way better”
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Who tf are these people? I’m a woman and I don’t scan crowds of strangers to rate couples, and I wouldn’t even say that to a friend much less a stranger. That’s extremely weird. It’s hard to believe it really has anything to do with OP, maybe you just keep running into assholes?
I assume New York because of its dense population also results in a higher number of assholes.
There are assholes everywhere, but NYC seems to take it as a point of pride.
I mean I'm a woman version of OP and never experienced this in the city myself. Maybe men aren't so bold as to comment in front of another man his date is an uggo?
For one, most of us aren't looking to pick a fight, and would only go after another man's partner like that if we were already pissed off at him.
For another, we know if a good looking guy is dating a meh looking woman and isn't obviously down bad, she is either an awesome person to be around, or an absolute minx in bed (or both!) and homie is doing just fine.
So true. Also the hard truth is guys will get into so much trouble for saying things like that. It's okay for girls to discriminate guys based on their looks or body, i.e. heights (it's called having standards), but guys get into trouble if they discriminate girls based on their body (it's called body shaming).
Maybe men aren't so bold as to comment in front of another man his date is an uggo?
I can fight, but I don't like to fight. Saying something like that to most guys is going to result in me having to fight.