My hair has no chill

Has anyone ever told you you're a dead ringer for Nathan Fillion??

I'd recommend going to a hairstylist and showing them a picture. Googling "mens curly hairstyles" should give you plenty of options, add "short" or "medium" to the search depending on your preference.

Your hair looks wavy/curly to me, so I might recommend adding some product but not the whole "curly girl method" thing. I have wavy hair, I like Cantu's curl cream and Davines All in One Milk. When you get out of the shower, leave your hair pretty wet, you can lightly dab it with a towel but don't rub - that's what's giving you a lot of the frizz I'm guessing.

While your hair is still really wet, brush it out and work in some hair product with your hands - any kind of leave in conditioner or the ones I mentioned above. Kinda scrunch the hair until it makes little clumps, and when you get it to a good point STOP. Don't touch it at all until it's almost dry! Then when it's 95% dry you can give it one last scrunch and you're good. If I want my hair to be extra luscious and shiny I put one squirt of Davines OI oil in my hands before the final scrunch - highly recommend it though it's a bit expensive.

Happy to answer any questions, best of luck on your hair journey!