I've found Heidi Priebe on youtube to be super helpful. Just the simple concept of with ofcourse you can't focus your emotionally disregulated, so obviously you'd procrastinate cause you physically can't focus. How alot of my responses aren't me being broken but obvious trauma responses. It's been validating for sure.
Therapy has been helpful as well
Having good friends (though this has been difficult to maintain)
Being more honest, like if I don't wanna buy the donut at the donut shop anymore, I just say that, instead of lying about coming back later cause I feel bad, I'm still working on this
watercoloring when I'm really struggling with my emotions
Heidi's channel has been so monumental. I think trying EMDR after doing work with her stuff really made EMDR work more.
Accepting my learned helplessness helped a lot too.
The 'Being Well' podcast helped me foster the beginnings of unconditional positive regard towards myself and address the internalized shame.
Finding friends that match who I am. Making sure to pour into them