Hello, I am very new to Couch Surfing and I have only met a few people just to hangout so far.
Now that I am going to start treveling, I got 3 offers from people(all men) to host me. I am a woman. One of them has quite a good review, the other two has only like 2 references so I declined. And it's all for the entire year..? Which means if I accept the offer, I get to stay the entire year??? This cannot be how it works, right?
The thing is I myself don't have any references at all and only have 2 friends. Even though I met more than 2 people and I thought we had a good time, they didn't accept my friend request lol. I have a long profile, but that's it. So I don't think I would have a good chance if I submit requests.
Are these offers quite common and safe enough? Am I overthinking? What do you think?
"And it's all for the entire year..? Which means if I accept the offer, I get to stay the entire year??? This cannot be how it works, right?"
That's defenitely not how it works. When you post a public trip you'll have to select an arrival and departure date. In general most hosts don't host longer than 3-4 days. So don't assume you can stay somewhere for the entire week or longer. If you're planning to stay somewhere for a weekor longer, you better spread your stay over various number of hosts.
When you post a public trip it's common that some weirdos will respond to your trip. Imo it's better to send out requests to people with good references instead. I'm not saying none of the people who respond to public trips are good people, but unfortunately there's quite a few male hosts just looking for sex on this platform. So always use your instincts.
What you could do, mention in your profile that you are not here on CS for dating purposes and that you have a bf, that way it's less likely to receive offers from creeps. Wishing you a great Couchsurfing experience and happy travels !