#1429: “Is this an exception to the rule, or am I fooling myself?”
LW understands the rule of "when someone stops talking to you, they don't want to." Another rule is, "If the person who broke off contact wants contact again, it is up to them to re-establish contact, otherwise you don't want 'em." This is true for romance AND friendships.
Sure, maybe LW's guy is thinking, "Wow I fucked up, I hope LW is well, gosh I'd love to get back in touch with her, but ... how?" And if that really is the case, he's either too prideful to make the first step and put himself out there or just so stupid/lazy he can't figure out how to reach out to her in the age of social media. Neither is an acceptable trait in a romantic partner.
or just so stupid/lazy he can't figure out how to reach out to her in the age of social media. Neither is an acceptable trait in a romantic partner.
Ahahaha I love how you put that! It's so true, anyone that stupid/lazy is just not partner material.