I was thinking to myself today about how there is a HIGH probability I will absolutely never be cancer free. Hell, at this point i’d say it is probably nearly guaranteed.
Stage 4 soft tissue sarcoma.
It’s a shit feeling to have. Especially being as young as I am.
Now, all I feel like is that i’m on life support essentially. Every three weeks I go for another infusion of chemotherapy. 8 straight months of chemotherapy with no breaks at all. Harsh chemotherapy as well, not just low dose maintenance.
I hate the fact that if I even decided to try and stop for say, a month or two, that the cancer will just start mutating and spreading more, putting me in worse condition. It’s like keeping a dog on a damn leash.
I just feel like a prisoner. Like I really have no freedom at all anymore because of a fucking disease.
All I really think about now is when do I draw the line in the sand and stop treatment? Do I just exhaust the options? or do I suffer for potentially a few more years just to make everyone else happy? Because honestly, I feel like i’m doing this for everyone else and not me right now. I guess you could say i’m giving up.
But how can you really “give up” when it was already pretty much over before it started?
The ultimate goal was surgical resection, bur unfortunately urtunatley it’s off the table for me. I hate the fact that I did all this harsh chemo for essentially, nothing. And I know so many people feel this way, not only me.
The last annoying thing on my mind is this: People who text me and ask how i’m doing just never respond after I answer. Why did you even ask? Super annoying. I feel like because it makes them feel better about themselves.
Anyway. I guess I just had to rant a little. This stuff is super exhausting as we all know. The only peace I find is that it definitely won’t last for ever!
I feel weird because my oncologist has a good amount of options for me, but ultimately idk if I really want to pursue them just to get a little more time. I feel like an ass for saying that in a way, but it’s true. There is just only so much one can take.
I am extremely grateful for the support from this community. This is the only place I feel comfortable saying these things.
I’m alive, but i’m definitely not living right now.