Howdy!
I’m moving to Selly Oak (Dawlish Road area) because I received full funding to do my PhD at UoB. My supervisors are perfect for what I’m doing & I’ve been really excited to get back out into the world and do my thing. I spent 4 years in Bristol and a year in Durham, but the last year I’ve been living in my Dad’s spare room working a dead end job.
So as you can imagine I’m thrilled to be moving forwards and that’s totally still where my head is mostly at… however.
I changed my location on Hinge (dating app) to Selly Oak… yeah I know it’s a bit sad 😂😂😂 but I don’t see the point in meeting people here when I’m moving away in a month. So I’ve been chatting to a few people and we’re getting along etc but the main theme, and they aren’t joking either is… “why the HELL would you choose to move here”.
Here’s one quote from a girl I’ve been chatting to:
“It's where all the undergrads at UoB live, think giant rats, rubbish on the streets, lots of break ins. Which road are you on? Some of them don't have bins”
As you can imagine, it’s not hard for this general theme to have slightly hampered my excitement. Rats especially… oh god I’m too neurotic and afraid of germs for that. And crime? Obviously a big turn off. I’ve not have much experience living in an area where crime is the norm.
So yeah… how accurate is this picture of the area in moving to? I’d be very grateful for honest answers!
Thanks in advance