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I appreciate the feedback so far. I just wanted some outside perspective. I guess I'm upset because for years I've begged my husband to go on at least one nice trip together because we never had a honeymoon, and it never happened. We've never done any real traveling so I was excited to do a girl trip with my friend, and I just feel confused about why he took over planning for it.
….??? He said you can plan it all and he will pay for it. How is that him taking over planning for it???
She was already planning the trip! He inserted himself into it which actually made her STOP planning - all so that he could “surprise” her with a trip she was already in the process of planning.
He’s trying to get credit for something that actually wasn’t his idea and by inserting himself, it messed up her plans.
She isn’t the bad guy here. He absolutely went about this the wrong way - and got her friend to lie to her.
I promise it doesn’t take 6 months to plan any vacation lmao
Perhaps not, but her husband still derailed her process and tried to hijack her trip so he could take the credit. Not cool.
(And some destinations actually do require reservations for certain attractions or restaurants MONTHS in advance - so his little “surprise” could affect availability for some stuff she wanted to do)