So long story short, my husband was driving into the target parking lot, our lane was ending and the car next to us looked like they were slowing down to let us in. He got over and as soon as we did the car sped up and tried to go around us. Pretty soon my husband takes off after the guy and follows him into another parking lot, I yell at him trying to get him to stop. This scares me because you never know who could have a gun and what could set people off and it’s not worth being a dick back. I know he wasn’t going to get out of the car, but the fact he had to be petty/chase them back really scared me.
After that he dropped me off at the target door and was PISSED at me. When I got back in the car he kept trying to show me the traffic video (he has a Tesla) I said I don’t care to see it and said he didn’t need to be petty back to the guy and he yells, “are you fucking stupid” and “I’m done driving with you I can’t do it” the whole care ride home I didn’t say a word till he next said how annoying I am while he drives. He’s had what I call road rage incidences before and gets so upset with me if I say anything or get upset. For example if someone cuts him off, he speeds up to cut them off..
When we got home he left saying he’s going to charge his car and grabbed his backpack and stormed out. He has been MIA for 5 hours now, and turned his location off.
I messaged him and asked why he turned his location off and he said “you think you deserve the satisfaction of tracking me?” Im honestly shook and don’t understand at all why something so small can be like this.
I keep texting him trying to get him to come home but he says no and says “this is the most depressed I’ve been in a long time” I said this isn’t going to help anything we are married and we need to communicate. He’s had depression in the past but he’s never acted like this.
I’m at a loss for words and every text I send I feel like I need to be careful what I say even though I’m the one who is also upset. How do I calmly approach the situation in the morning?
TL;DR: my husband has been MIA 5 hours because I got mad at him while he was driving.