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It’s not that they don’t understand, it’s that they intentionally try to remain ignorant.
It’s not that they don’t understand, it’s that they intentionally try to remain ignorant.
And continue to make fun of us in the process.
and entitled
We have to see this as a plus. Here we have another top Dating Question, besides "how do you feel about abortions". How do you see the man vs bear thing? Now you know immediately if he is a good one or a ignorant.
Unpredictable is worse than "will kill you"?
Unquestionably. A bear might leave, or it might kill me. A man might be chill, or he might kill me, or rape me, or peel my face off and wear it while he keeps me locked in his basement. Dangerous men are horrifically creative, and they can *lie*. A bear is honest about his intentions toward me.
Uhm. You sound traumatized so idk. To me it sounds so weird that you would pick the bear. Yes there are some disgusting human beings out there but we are talking probabilities here. I don't know how to feel about that peeling off face thing either.
Cool, if we're making assumptions about each other you sound willfully ignorant. Maybe go check out some of those probability statistics for yourself. I'm happy to explain or discuss my opinion, but I'm not interested in justifying it to you. You aren't the arbiter of its validity.
Ah I see. Everything is "opinions" that you don't need to justify. That's where the fun opinions begin. Fine, if you think that a random man is more dangerous than a bear that's your opinion. One could call it far fetched or even sexist but whatever.
For every three women you know, you know at least one woman who has been raped. YOU know. Personally.
Well it makes sense
You’d obviously call Human Resources on a human
Some HR departments might be more likely to actually do something about the bear than someone harassing fellow employees. 😐
I think the “not all men” claim warrants a HR call. When I hear it, it translates to, “not all men but probably me too.” The exceptions understand it’s most men and don’t hide behind “not all men.”
Congratulations on correctly explaining how this is a dehumanizing kafkatrap.
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i like the bear tho he seems polite
See the thing is that even if we chose the man over the bear and somehow the man attacked us then they will say " what were you doing interacting with a strange man in the woods"
Yep.
And if you ask them if they'd leave their daughter with a strange man, they'll always say no. But still get pissed if the woman makes the same choice for herself.
They are so close.
I think it's kinda wild how they both don't understand we aren't asking if you would want to date/ fuck/ be Sa'd by the bear but just encounter a random bear/ man in the woods but also how consistently framing themselves as animalistic/ primal in their pursuit of women as a rebuttal to conversations around rape culture could possibly lead to women seeing them as no better than one of the predators they like to claim are their spirit animal after they took a FB quiz on it.
Like what do you want? To be an alpha male whose only drive is the desire to secure and provide for a "high value mate" or to be seen as a human and not the caricature of a Neanderthal? Is it permission to act predatory without consequences?
Cause all I can see is a natural response to the surge of Tater tot style ideology that openly encouraged manipulative and predatory behavior as normal dating strategies and older trends with the PUA bs turning building intimate partnerships into virtual signaling to the (patriarchal) status quo via acquisition of sex.
And women have been saying for years that the red pill/ manosphere bullshit comes of as a red flag and predatory. And every time we do that group just doubles down. So it seems like it really is just about wanting to be predatory but not understanding that "prey" learn to outsmart predators all the fucking time and the first step is identification. It really does just seem like some dudes are mad that we see them for what they are and plan accordingly.
Look at the bears cute paws.
Love it!
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What boomer shit is this??
I wonder if this is the problem. Instead of understanding we see men as more unpredictable - and therefore more dangerous - than bears, they think we just don't understand how dangerous bears are. How exhausting.