Had sex with protection one time and she misses her period. Am I screwed?

No psychic. Take pregnancy test.

Get her to take a test. No form of birth control (other than not having sex at all) is 100% guaranteed effective.

I had unprotected sex with my now husband and my period was laaateee but it was stress related. As soon as I took a pregnancy test and saw it was negative, I got my period.

Sometimes, Auntie Flo likes to be a bitch and play with us.. that said, she needs to take a test

"I had sex with a friend" ... if that may be the case, have you given it any thought that maybe she could have had sex with another 'friend' without protection.. before you??

One step at a time.

First, figure out if she’s pregnant. You said she’s going to take a test on Sunday. If the home pregnancy test is positive, she should have it confirmed by a doctor. If at all possible, go with her to the doctor’s appointment.

Second, if she is pregnant and it’s confirmed by a doctor, get a paternity test. You can get a Non Invasive Paternity Test as soon as the 7th week of pregnancy. It’s a blood test, so there’s no risk to the mother or fetus. It can be a bit pricey, but you won’t have to wait until the baby is born to know whether it’s yours or not.

Don’t leave anything up to chance, and be absolutely sure.

take a test, but you are probably fine, relaxxx

If she’s pregnant it’s probably not yours

Highly unlikely especially with protection and a grace period for your orgasm.

She should take a pregnancy test, and you should get a paternity test taken.

Late or even completely skipped periods is something that happens sometimes. She should take a pregnancy test. If it says she's not pregnant, chances are her hormones just decided to be wack this month.

If she is pregnant, don't take her word that it's yours insist on a paternity test. She may say you are the only one, but that doesn't mean you are the only one.

She also might be mistaken about how far along she is. It's not unusual for there to be some spotting that happens around the time implantation and it might be taken for a light period. If that happened, she could be 10 weeks along instead of 6 (pregnancy is counted from the start of the last period, not conception).

Periods can be late for all sorts of reasons and it’s also entirely possible that she had (unprotected) sex with someone else recently and doesn’t want to tell you (which is her business). Try and be patient and not let your mind run away until you know. I know that’s much easier said than done, but whether she is or isn’t pregnant, your preemptive worrying will improve neither situation. Also, if she is unintentionally pregnant, especially if she got that way out of a relationship, she’s probably even more stressed out about it than you are. I know you’re (rightfully) freaking out, but try not to pester her. If she ends up being pregnant and it’s yours, ask her what she wants to do about it; don’t tell her what to do. Whether she decides to keep going with the pregnancy or not is obviously her call and whatever she chooses will go better with your support. I’m not suggesting it doesn’t involve you of course, but ultimately it is her call and being supportive and communicative will go a long way. Take some deep breaths and keep in mind that you can both handle whatever needs to be handled, even if it’s not ideal. There’s nothing wrong with thinking/planning ahead, but try not to get ahead of yourself. It’s entirely possible she’s just late, not pregnant.

Bruh, pretty certain you're not a father. Plus girls can miss them for all kinds of reasons

Stress make period late. Probably fine. Get test

It's unlikely that this is a pregnancy resulting from the sex you're describing, stress often causes late or missed periods and if I had a nickel for every time I've gotten my period immediately following the relief of a negative test I would have enough to buy a Starbucks drink.

Very… very unlikely

If you two aren't in a committed, monogamous relationship, how do you know she's not having sex with some of her other "friends?" 🤔

Is she on birth control or recently changed to a new birth control? Some types of birth control can affect the timing of periods because of hormonal changes. There was one my wife took and she would only have 4-6 periods a year.

Having sex can throw off a woman's cycle and so can stress

Obviously protection is never 100% but I'd say the likelihood of her being pregnant with your precautions would be low but could happen. If she's pregnant and you keep definitely get a paternity test

You’re good dude

Was it her first time? My ex girlfriend got her period schedule thrown off heavily after we did it for the first time. I’m not saying that’s definitely what happened but you never know.

Althought not impossible the chances of impregnating a woman having used condom and pull out method are slim, I'd advise in case she is pregnant to take a paternity test. Maybe you are not the father.

Look to /r/tragedeigh to learn what not to name your kid.

Pregnancy Test, and if it shows postive and if decides to keep it PATERNITY TEST.

Is there a chance for her to get pregnant after you used a condom AND pulled out? Yes. But it's very, very, very low.

So get a paternity test first thing if that happens.

The other guy she screwed with no protection should be worried 😉

I think she trapped you son. She was already pregnant and just wanted to get you to be the father

There is almost no chance you got her pregnant. Still do the pregnancy test, but… if she’s pregnant, it’s most likely not by you.

Exhale, dude. It’s gonna be ok.

Take a pregnancy test.

You did not get her pregnant, don’t worry at all. If it wasn’t broken, nothing got through. If you pulled out, nothing got in. If she’s pregnant, it’s not yours. Please ignore anyone in here saying she got pregnant from precum magically teleporting outside the unbroken condom. Don’t even give this a second thought, you are fine.

Even blowing a full load inside w no protection one time is a relatively low chance to get pregnant. With a condom that didn’t break it’s near 100% (please don’t tell me 97% people, if you pour water in a cup and none spills, is there a 97% chance the table is dry or 100%?). With a condom and pullout you are looking at 99.99999999999%

If she’s pregnant it’s probably not from you (unless they stole the cum in a condom).

My dude, sometimes period doesnt happen bc of different reasons like stress, bad or little eating, dehydration and hormone imbalance. If you’re absolutely sure there’s no chance of pregnancy whatsoever, it might be the above causes. Is she healthy? Confirm she’s doing well to negate the possibility of the above.

BUT! If the seemingly impossible happens, then you gotta buck up. Take responsibility etc etc.

Also, how absolutely sure are you that this friend doesnt have any other friends who might screw up her period? No harm in making sure.

And how sure are you about yourself in this situation? That the condom absolutely worked? Nothing could have slipped past? Double check. Just be absolutely and completely sure.

Are you the only person she’s sleeping with?

Step 1: Pregnancy test. Step 2: Paternity test.

Periods can be late for many different reasons. Especially if you're young which im assuming you sure since you're asking on here instead of just taking a test which is The only way you're going to get an answer to of shes pregnant or not.

Did you use put condom on before any sort of penetration.. or did you go "oh ill tip in just a bit for awhile raw, and then get condom on" because precum can also to the trick.. You know, always safer not to fool around. Once its out of the pants and out of her mouth "if she was into that" get that rubber on.

Women's bodies can screw up now, and then stressing can affect getting periods. There is also a woman's reproductive system having of days.

If she is on the pill or any other contraceptive, that can also mess things up.

Agree with others, get a pregnancy test.

This has happened to me a lot but it was usually a false alarm, except for the 4 times that represent each of my 4 kids.

lol highly unlikely, periods can be late for numerous reasons don’t worry

She was screwed. You are fucked.

Hate to break it to you, but the kid is probably not yours. take a pregnancy test, do not say your the father until the DNA test is done proving you are, also, do not sign anything either.

Wdym you know she hasn’t been with anyone else? Have you been with her every waking hour of the past several weeks?

One time I had a girl basically start begging me for sex out of nowhere. But I was extra safe about it like you were and she basically seemed disappointed. Few weeks later she says she’s pregnant and I said ok let me know when you wanna do the paternity test. She seemed shocked and again weirdly disappointed. Year later she’s got the baby and let’s just say, definitely doesn’t look anything like me and no word about any sort of testing.

I’m not saying that this is what happened to you but I’m just saying if you think you know someone you can be very wrong.

Shes banging someone else dude. Yall aint a couple so if shes banging you as a friend Shes banging other friends too.

Step 1: the chance you got her pregnant is ridiculous small and lots of things influence a period so try to calm yourself

Step 2: Pregnancy test

Step 3a: If not pregnant - nice!

Step 3b: If pregnant - oopsiedoopsie, time to get a paternity test, chances of you being the father are still very low

Even with a condom, if there’s sperm, there’s a chance. You could’ve gotten someone on your hand and then on the outside of the condom or something like that. You don’t know until she takes a test.

Take blood test for pregnancy and then use the kit. It is 99.99 percent accurate if both results are same. Hence stay rest assured if both are negative, delay is very common in girls

Maybe.

What state do you live in?

From what you explained, youre most certainly fine.

I'm not scared

Plan B is now Plan A

Yeah... Dude you don't KNOW 100% that she hasn't had sex with anyone else unless she's been with you 24/7 since before her last period AND through when you had sex ALL the way up to now. You could be 99.9% confident, but the fact is there's still a chance she did something with someone else.

IF she claims to be pregnant, demand a paternity test. Considering that you had sex ONE time and you used a condom that didn't break AND you pulled out I find it HIGHLY unlikely that she's pregnant from you, of course in this case there is also that very rare chance that there was a micro-hole in the condom that your pre-cum got through that impregnated her, but the more probable situation is either she's missing her period for a health reason or something random OR if she's pregnant it's possible she got pregnant from someone else.

Was it her first time? Because when I lost my virginity I had my period late of 2 and a half weeks despite having always been very regular. Went back to perfectly regular after that cycle. 🤷‍♂️

I hope not

Test or wait

playing the devils advocate, was she maybe pregnant before hand ?

Yep, I’ve got you bro!

Why on earth has she not taken a pregnancy test? They’re literally $1 at Walmart or the dollar store. Results in 3 minutes. If her period is weeks late and she’s pregnant, it would be positive pretty much right away. There’s no excuse for not just taking a pregnancy test at this point.

Dude go get a test why wait. It really seems like she's treating this like no big deal to be okay knowing she's late and still waiting. She's either in shock or being extremely suspicious. Especially if you guys are in the US knowing the climate of women's health care.

Well . . . . there's always the "someone" else. If she is, ask for a paternity test, you know to cement your trust.

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Why hasn’t she taken a pregnancy test yet?

Congrats for your child!

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Anyone reading this should really look up the statistics on effectiveness of condoms versus other contraceptive and birth controls. Condoms have a really poor performance rate, oftentimes because they break or are misused or just fail you in some manner.

Confucius say; Take many parts to make machine. Take only one screw to make baby.

If no ones already said this, possible she had a different person share her bed

Sounds like something from Maury. Paternity test

Well, you're not screwed just cause youre having a baby. If you don't want a baby then stop having sex til you know it's the lady you're going to be with forever. But in all honesty, you're probably good. Chicks are late all the time. Sometimes more late than the last one. Once a full week or week and a half go by then, start shitting bricks 🤣

Just get her to take a pregnancy test and if she is pregnant there's plenty of time to get an abortion.

She probably fucked someone else and gonna blame you for it to raise another mans child

Friends to parents

Means she wasnt just sleeping with you anything else is a lie and she found time to sleep around period.... she is seeing multiple guys on the side. Id hit up a lawyer asap

She's either just late, or she had sex with someone else.

You should not pull out while wearing a condom. This can cause slippage/breakage.

Oh shit, welcome to fatherhood

Yep you are screwed happened to so many of my friends lol

Did u flush the condom? if not it's possible she used the contents to try and get pregnant.

She could have rook the condom without u knowing and stole ur goods and put it inside her

You could be screwed if you have powerful sperm like me. My partner was going onto the coil, so we had to make sure she had her period before she could go in, do the pregnancy test, and get it fitted. We were so careful, until one day we were messing around, she bent over the bed to grab a condom and I put it in and thrusted only a few times, then slipped on the protection.... that's all it took for pre cum to do its magic.... Got a beautiful boy out of it I guess haha