Everyone’s tells me not to get a facelift

I’m scheduled for a facelift, brow lift and fat transfer in three weeks. I’ve gotten so many opinions from rando’s and family saying I don’t need it and they don’t understand. I’m starting to freak out. After I had my kids I feel like my face melted. Has anyone gotten a facelift and been happy (or not) with my degree of laxity? TIA