Wholesome Pinoy R4R Connections

Hello!

We recently did some reorganization and are looking for additional helping hands in moderating this subreddit.

What tasks are expected of you:

• Go through the posts and check if any of them break the rules (also check the profile to see if they posted the same ad in a different sub which contains NSFW intentions there, or to see if they're spamming)
• Review posts that are in the queue (usually filtered posts advertising/looking for servers/group chats)
• Suggest ways to improve the sub

We are looking for:

• Someone with at least 1 year account age
• Has substantial karma
• In good standing with the subreddit
• And most importantly, HAS ENOUGH FREE TIME TO CHECK THE SUBREDDIT THROUGHOUT THE DAY

Things to note:

• This is VOLUNTARY. We are not getting any kind of compensation for doing this.
• Be prepared to get insulted or cursed by rulebreakers for simply doing your job.

If you think you're the one we're looking for, please send us a Mod Mail with the subject [ Mod Application ].

Please, please, PLEASE do not apply for the role if you're not willing to do what is required of you. Being a moderator is not just a shiny title to show off.

We hope to hear from you soon.

Hello.

Just a quick update regarding a change we're trying out.

We've been seeing spam and low-effort posts from accounts that are new and have low karma. So from now on, posts made by accounts that are new and/or have <50 karma will be removed.

We'll see how it goes and if we should make adjustments to the thresholds later on.

That is all.

Have a nice weekend, Friends!

Monday blues are hitting hard. Work has been really stressful lately and wala ako machika to vent out or just talk about random things, since I wfh.

About me: - sort of an artist, more on the traditional side - animal lover. I’d pet any animal that’ll let me. - likes to cook - likes music (hmu with song recommendations) - likes theatre - works in Acctg & Finance - plays mobile games - introvert

About you: - no particular preference as long as we get along and you’re kind. Keep it SFW please!

Hmu and kindly drop a brief intro.

Trying my luck from this world full of loneliness, is there Someone out there up for a serious and genuine connection? Someone who will be my partner?

Me: 30M 5'7, moreno, with glasses, medium to slim build, professional, knows how to cook, knows household chores, loves computer games, movies and animes. I'm also a furdad of 2 cats

You: must be loyal, faithful, has respect, understanding with good emotional intelligence

DM me and lets start a journey together. Lets get out of this pit together. Please DM me your intro, thank you!

HUWAG NA KAYO MAG-MESSAGE IF SA UNA LANG MAGALING!

Hi! It's been years since I committed to someone. Dating nowadays is hard, but is it worth it to take the risk? Well, anyway, I'm just here to try talking again with the opposite gender and give it a try, not forcing them to have a label or what, but going with the flow!

About me: - Female - 20 years old - 5'5 - Normal BMI (52 kg), medium build. - Nursing Student - Antisocial Extrovert - Lurker here in Reddit and Kakampink - I would love to try road trips, hiking, and camping, but mostly at home, like always. - I have a lot of patience and am kind. - BALINTAWAK, QC

About you: - Please, be at least older and taller than me! I love being a baby. - Easy on the eyes? - Just be kind, and I love an act of service, guy! - Someone has more substance than just being abangers in alas juicy or gone wild. (ginawang personality pagiging horny🤮) - With a motor or a car? But we can commute or be halfway! - Someone near me (as medyo clingy, hindi ko kaya masyadong malayo)

STRICTLY SFW❗❗ (Baka pala di ako makareply agad agad since duty ako until 10pm)

Hello everyone! LF kausap. Okay lang kahit mareklamo sa buhay (ako din kase)

About me: •5'3 •Pangarap nalang ang pagtaba •Madalas makalimutan edad (basta di pa ako 30 pero hindi rin below 25) •Lapitin ng gastos at kamalasan •Laging LSS sa nursery rhymes •Marunong mag 'po' at 'opo' •Roamer (pero nauuna tumakas pag clash)

Wala akong preference basta yung hindi nang gho-ghost tsaka ayoko yung pala hingi ng nudels. (Hindi ako pang Vivamax)

About me: 20-year-old introvert who gets along best with outgoing people. Most of my friends are extroverts, so I'm hoping to find online friends who are conversationalist. I'm happily in a relationship, so just looking for friendly conversations!

I'm a good listener and enjoy talking about anything. I have a kanal humor i think…. I love music, so if you have any favorite songs or artists to recommend, I'd love to hear them!

Hi everyone!

I'm looking for an accountability buddy and it's my first time looking for one. I have a sideline, working as a designer and overall construction sa isang studio type condominium. However, it has been 2 months and I have been delayed numerous times because of my ADHD and my procrastination. Whenever I get delayed from my promised date, I tend to get anxiety attacks and it makes me go fetus mode and lalong wala akong nagagawa. Please help me out fellow nagpapayaman, for context please see below:

• My main work is from 11:00 PM to 8:00 AM (work from home) and usually start doing my sideline at 8:30 AM onwards maybe until 4:00 PM max.
• I've done previous construction/design jobs before but this is the first time I'm going solo
• I'm open to working at cafes if need be lalo na pag rush, if it will help me boost my productivity I'm open to coworking
• We can do calls via discord, telegram or kung saan man just so you know I'm working or we can both hear the clacking of the keyboards
• I'm more comfortable sa women partly because I was raised by a single mother, my whole household is composed of females (including my gay cousin) and a whole lot of girl friends than boy friends.
• Yes I have a fiance, In an open relationship (im throwing this out there), but really right now, I just need somebody to keep me up and motivate me
• You are allowed to curse me, be kanal or kung ano man just to make me laugh or mabatukan ako. PLEASE, I AM STARTING TO HATE MYSELF BY PROCRASTINATING...
• We can also do bets if you want, anything.. really anything jusko help me Lord
• Mga beh, keep it SFW as long as we can. Thank you!

See you peeps! Please help out a lazy procrastinator.... please....

abt me: - into fashion, arts, creativity in general - loves going to aesthetic cafes, galleries, museums - loves dressing up! - bookworm - cute daw ako 😜 - working student

i feel like it’s time for me to put myself out there. i have friends but they’re busy lately, we rarely keep in touch. i just want friends to go to cafes with, see galleries and museums, or even someone to interact with online. anything goes! i’m an INFJ if that matters. see u in my dms!

About me :

I am a 4th year accountancy student , Lives in San Jose Del Monte Bulacan , Has cycling and gym for hobbies , Open minded and up for anything. I am pretty good at conversations . I am a hopeless romantic who knows a thing or two about commitment and consistency. I'm not looking for NSFW stuff but genuine connection. My height is 5'4 , and is working out but still has love handles

About you :

I dont have any physical preferences , Just someone to vibe with and find connection to. A deal breaker for me though would be past cheating or monkey branching as I have experienced it.

I know how to love and treat someone right , just waiting for someone to do the same to me

Hiii everyone I’m from Metro Manila. Currently in my active era, wishing I can meet other people who loves to hike, run, swim or any sports we can learn together. I’ve been working out and trying to be as active as I can pero iba kasi kapag you are also enjoying the company of other people 😌 hmu!!!

My boyfriend had been surrounded by the wrong kind of people all this time. He wants to get out of his shell and socialize along with me so we can bond with the same group of potential friends we meet through the internet.

To cut it short, my boyfriend and I are looking for people we can hang out with either online-- to play games, watch movies, chill in discord with etc. or offline where we can hang out irl; we can eat out, drink, play board games, go skating (pls teach us), jump at trampoline parks, or maybe party as long as we can tag along.

about us:

HIM:

• 21
• likes to play games (nowadays: Valorant, Minecraft, Enshrouded, LoL)
• works part-time
• lives in QC
• likes anime
• can sing
• likes to work out if not preoccupied

ME (F):

• 23
• also likes to play games (can play anything)
• lives in Makati
• likes anime, manga, movies & series as long as they're interesting
• hella good at giving advice since I want to embody the kind of person I long for

Good morning! Early bird ang peg ko ngayon kaya ako pa lang talaga ang nandito sa office.. haha, anyone here na gusto nang kausap? tara usap bago nag start ang work...

ang bigat ng puso ko at pakiramdam ko. di ko makahinga ng maayos. di ako makaiyak. parang nawalan ako ng purpose sa buhay ngayon. kailangan ko ng kausap.

kapag may nakusap ako, nadidistract ako at di ko naiisip at nararamdaman yung sakit. can someone call me? pls? pls? thank you. i'm heart broken. parang ayoko na gumising mamayang gabi.

pls? call me. discord. thank u.

Once a year, without fail, an OPM song triggers my heart strings and I think to myself- "You know what? Maybe you can give this thing another try." But then I'm reminded of how shitty the dating scene has been. People bringing baggage to new relationships, people not being honest about their intentions. We've all been there and we've all been that.

But...

The thought of your "palagi," of not having to go through the ups and downs alone, of having a witness to your life, of being known, and having someone to call home. It's tempting. It's selfish, too, maybe... But very tempting.

I know most of us are probably at that point in life where we just need someone to hold our hand. If only there was someone, anyone, maybe it'll make things easier. Maybe it'll make things worth it. Again, selfish, Again, tempting.

But...

Love is a choice, and we don't have to make that decision now. Maybe... just maybe... it's okay to be selfish at the beginning. Maybe we can hold each other's hands for now. What's the worst that can happen?

So, hi! My name is *****. I'm a bit melodramatic, as you can see. I cry a lot, but I also laugh a lot, and I've finally learned to do both unapologetically. I'm 26. I'd say I'm a cutie, maybe even pretty. Depends on your standards. I'm a bit introverted, but lately, I find myself wanting to experience more in life. Maybe I can stay in and watch documentaries and play games when I'm older. The world would be much smaller then, and I would've learned to be content. For now, we can be selfish and discontented together. Maybe...?

Typical things I look for in people:

• 25 to 30 years old

• Someone without vices

• Someone who isn't close minded, small minded, or just plain dumb (not homophobic, a zionist, a misogynist... you get it)

• 5'8" and up for guys / no preference for girls

• Healed (?) lmao

• Someone who likes to play PC, switch, and board games too!

• Someone sweet, but would not hesitate to banter with me (please say it makes sense)

(This isn't a criteria, so you don't have to fit it. You can just use it as a guide. Oh, except for the age and the not being dumb part. I don't really see myself relating to anyone younger, older, or dumber.)

Anyways, that's it! Talk to you soon, you selfish, hot nerd. 😗

I'm here again (hays). Naghahanap lang ka chat and mapagshe-share-an ko ng mga ganap ko sa buhay.

About me:

1. 5'5, mukhang tito pero cute sabi ng mga friends ko (we can swap pics if you want)
2. Mahilig ako mag bigay ng mga opinion sa mga bagay bagay
3. Sobrang daldal ko. As in. Pero depende parin sa kausap, I do the 'ping-pong' method way of talking
4. may sense of humor daw sabi ng mga tropa ko (oo na clown na ko)
5. Currently working (wfh)
6. from around QC, malapit sa Balintawak
7. nag aabot ng bayad sa jeep
8. Likes overwatch 2, OPM bands, movies, digital arts
9. sobrang chill

About you:

1. I dont really mind appearances basta mabait hahaha
2. Madaldal or sana hindi boring kausap like "ahh ganon", "haha", "sabagay" mga ganitong reply

BONUS:

• siguro yung marunong kumanta
• saka knows about pop culture (para may mapagusapan tayo) or
• if you play overwatch 2, dota 2, SJD, bonus na rin para may similar activity tayo. If not, still cool as long as you're not boring kausap
• saka pala if you like/do digital arts rin

we can chat sa tg or discord :D

Hello! I'm working near Megamall and mamayang 3pm ang out ko. Looking for someone na pwede akong samahan to have a super late lunch mamaya! Kwentuhan max nrin.

About me: - Chubby - Fur mom - Femme leaning soft masc - Madaldal

About you: - Just the way you are - Pero sana ung malapit lng din sa Mega para di hassle

HMU

Looking for someone to talk to and be friends with. I’m open to meet up anytime and anywhere around Manila. I’m mostly in Makati for work. I’m pretty chill to talk to and easy to vibe with. You can vent/rant on me. We could do voice/video call also!

About me:

I’m a femme QUEER if that matters, loves cat and dogs, I do yoga and running. I travel and party most times. Into spirituality and astrology. ⋆｡°✩

I listen to music a LOT. I’m thinking of producing my own music soon! Mainly EDM. Plus points if you’re a techno listener! (Not required)

Please chat me something about you!

See you in my chat?

Looking for someone open and matured enough to have a wholesome conversation with. Let's exchange thoughts, ideas, knowledge, insights, share goals, etc. without having to argue or feel offended. If ever you are, hopefully you are matured enough to tell me.

I'm on the softie and carefree side sooo I hope you won't find me as an emotional person, I just really love to talk about things in life.

About me:

• 28

• Working professional

• From pampanga

• Loves feeding the mind, games, easy outgoing

• Prefers peace and 1 on 1 hangouts

• Can be your companion :)

About you:

• just be cool and we good :)

Annyeong. Hiii. Holaa. Konnichiwa. Im looking for constant. Yung di maarte sa buhay. Someone who will listen sa lahat ng chika ko. We can do anything you want pero plus if gamer ka din.

About myself: -Short King, round eyes, wears glasses, normal bmi. -From Batangas -XNXJ talaga -Working professional -Gives effort and time if we vibes I'm so madaldal para sa lalake and having the feminine masculine personality -Plays Badminton -Gamer (plays Valo, dota, ML, etc) -Graduate from the green school -Pedeng maging psychologist or guidance counselor mo

About you: -No height, age, and location preference basta vibes tayo -Single (syempre) -Sana yung machika din para di tayo maubusan ng kwento -Knows how to build conversation and relationship

See you in dm. Kahit hi or hello lang ayos na. Hahaha

Hello everyone!!

Lately I've been thinking about friendships and how i regret being a very reserved type during my college years and how that netted me only small number of friends; so here i am, on the internet trying to recreate that experience!
I'm corpo-worker so I'm mostly available only on the weekends but can squeeze some time to talk! Im kinda boring when it comes to hobbies, that being the usual GYM and videogames. I also dabble in gunpla and the tech enthusiast scene. If looks are a big factor to you but the summary is: not chinito but almost there and i have long hair.

Feel free to message me hopefully we can play some games and shoot the shit!

hi just looking for someone who's up for being serious with me. Like, we're constants and then hopefully it turns to exclusivity.. i can get to know , talk to , hopefully spend some time with someday :D hope we get to know one another and talk about our likes and dislikes !

about me

-CHUBBY

-30

-from qc(near libis qc)

-working professional

-can cook or bake

-spends most of my time on discord\

-would watch movies or play games with you :D

-furdad

bout you?

-hindi ghoster

-SINGLE

-if your just here to play games scroll away nlng po

Understanding sa Schedule

-Idk, hopefully a decent human being. No preference on what you look like...

if you made it here lets dm!! send a quick intro!

Looking for a chatmate since it's vacation and I have all the time for a conversation. Preferably thru chats lang since I suck at calls and my introvert self just can't keep up. Can be short-term or long term, depends if we have the same interest/vibe. Can also be your gaming buddy (If you play League or anything low spec). Also please be sfw.

Anyway about me:
- Fresh Grad (Engineering Degree)
- Not From Luzon
- Hobbies are cycling and video games.
- Can discuss about anything (SFW)

About you:

• Around my age
  
• Preferably may common interest (Okay lang din if wala, basta maayos kausap)
  

Just dm with your short intro :)

Are there any Makati-based professionals who would like to go on a coffee/tea/matcha run later (July 8, 17:30 onwards)? 2024 H2 has just started and I'm already burning out. If you're feeling the same way, let's hijack our Monday and do a BLIND meet-up later.

This is a friendly meet-up, so I won't list my physical preferences. But here are some things about me:

1. I like to work but I'm not immune to burn out.

2. The human in me craves for spontaneity and connection. Hence, this invitation :)

3. During idle office time, I daydream of stepping outside the corporate world and taking on a barista role (???).

4. Sober for a month already. I'll turn down your bar hopping plans.

5. Technically, I'm a Gen Z rep but I am not abreast with trends, latest social buzz, hyped movies, and the likes. Economic news and market updates? I can bring that to the table :^)

I hope this can turn into a mutual routine. It would be nice to bond with someone outside our circles.

LETS VC ON DISCORD WHILE IM WORKING

SEND ME DISCORD ID NO INDECENT STUFF PLEASE JUST CHIKAHAN

ABT ME: TRANSF , THE REST YOU WILL FIND OUT

Usap lang po hanap ko. I prefer calls over chats. Huwag magtatampo pag isang beses lang makakausap.

Fave topics: smosh, food, cooking, coffee shop, dogs, cats, at kahit ano.

If need ng advice, better haha

currently in the mood for intellectual conversation

Anyone looking for someone na pwede makavibes, through virtual set up.
If taga south ka, then down ako for coffee meet up hang out.

About me:
-Freelance, multiple clients.
-Into self development, career and financial literacy
-work out 3-4x a week, not gym rat pero fit.
-Pwede ako driver mo, haha pwede din siguro ako hardinero taga linis ng bahay anything na pwede ko gawin

• I say I'm on a good looking side naman.
• Generous if gusto ko vibes mo :)
• Intj

About you:
Pakilala ka naman and sana same interest, see you.