What college would you recommend?

I would take whatever the best scholarship is. None of these schools are going to get you in the door on their own with a computer science degree, so I would aim to graduate with the least amount of debt. Learn as much as you can and network hard with your professors, just understand that all other things equal you're going to be at the bottom of the pile of recent CS grads, most places are going to prefer graduates from more premier schools. And software jobs can afford to be picky at this point. It's a hard road, not impossible but you can't coast through a CS degree at CMU and expect there to be a job waiting for you.

My only negative recommendation is do NOT go to Eastern, especially not without a scholarship. As an EMU grad, my experience was that it's just plain not a good school, and they will gladly saddle you with 10s of thousands of dollars of debt and boot you out the door with zero help finding a job after graduating. And the quality of coursework was extremely poor sometimes, I got more out of high school and community college than I did in most classes at EMU.

Also the culture at EMU is basically non-existent. I made exactly one friend in my entire time there. Most students are commuters and they just want to go to class and go home. It was honestly a pretty depressing environment for me.