I'll be honest. I've never cheated on my wife (Together 8, married for 5), but it's not for lack of desire to experience being with other women. The thought of never being with anyone else feels a bit weird, but I don't act on it because I don't want to lie, hurt her, hurt our kids, risk ruining our family, or ruining my reputation with family and friends and many other negative outcomes. Is the same true for other men who don't cheat or do you not even have the desire? Or is something wrong with me and/or my marriage?
I've also heard that for the men that have no desire, it's because they had a lot more experience in their younger years and essentially got through their "hoe phase" while they were relatively unattached.
Open to hearing from women too.
I have no desire to be with anyone but my wife.
Listen, I’ll be blunt as fuck here. The kinda of sex me and my wife have, ain’t no fucking way someone else is gonna be better or even as close to her. That’s a SINGLE reason why.
No other woman put their body through it during pregnancy twice for me like my wife, she almost died for our first child even, no ones cared for me in my entire life as much as my wife.
I have three women who mean the most to me above all else (well before I had kids which now mean more to me than most) which are my grandmother who took me in as her son even though she had 13 fucking kids already, my aunt who took me after my grandmother passed away (her mother) and became my mother and father in one. Then my wife, who I put above those other two combined because she is just amazing in every way since I met her. She’s been my peace, my foundation, my best friend and the person I will grow old with and make the most memories.
Ain’t no fucking way I’m messing us up. 10 years together and I’m more in love than before.