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You big mad 😄
Tall girl problems I feel ya
Honestly you look really young to me so it could be they think you’re underage other than that I can’t think of anything you look fine
Now girl why in the hell would you come to reddit with this? we are minorities here and these ppl don’t find our features beautiful. all you’ll get here is negativity & racism.
What do you mean, “these people”?
it ain’t rocket surgery to figure that out
Do you mean, “rocket science”?
Enlighten me. I’ll wait for your response.
You think rocket science is hard? Try rocket surgery and get back to me buddy.
Was that what I said?
Try and interpret what I said and get back to me buddy 🙃
You could use a little bit of make up if you want to attract the opposite sex more often
You need a short king.
I'm not sure if you have other pics, but if you work on your makeup skills plus your outfits, then you're really gonna pop off. Outside of that, you look good
My advice is to match with a short hardworking guy and become a power couple.
You look like the girl who makes everyone laugh (that sound mean i promise its well intentioned)
That doesn't sound mean. Why would that sound mean?
it sounded like I was describing someone that is made fun of
No it didn't. People like funny people.
Well to me it did so I just wanted to clarify
You are extremely pretty and have a very nice figure, though I don't think your hair is doing you any favors right now. Also, there's not much you can do about it, but 5'10 is going to be very intimidating for most men. I still have a hard time believing you've never been asked out - if that's true, maybe you may not come off as approachable.
You're a cutie. Smile more.
Opinion: hair could use some TLC maybe utilize protective styles as you grow it out to be healthy again. Maybe medium braids, crotchet braids or a pony with a middle front braid and extensions. Style in your photo is kind of basic. It’s summer try vibrant colors, pink, yellow. And get cute accessories to match. Be yourself. Don’t rush, be patient! I’m a 27F and I regret 4/5 of my relationships they absolutely were big wastes of time in my opinion. When you do meet someone don’t be overly excited and don’t sacrifice who you are because someone “finally” asked you out. Don’t settle for lames and users. All the best!
Short hair
Beautiful.
You’re not 20
You started off by saying that you've never been asked out. I saw the beauty in you and suggested you reveal a little of your body characteristics, most of the women do in a very advantageous way,anyway! But always remember, less is more! Good luck!
You're so pretty! You have great style, it's not fussy and you are just naturally beautiful. I've known other taller girls that have the same issue because guys are insecure about their height. In a couple years as they grow out of their insecurities, it'll happen.
Smile more?
You are absolutely gorgeous! Your height is definitely what is intimidating men from approaching you. But personally, I love a tall woman. I’m 6’2 and if you walked in a room I would be attracted to you immediately. Trust me when I tell you, you will be asked out by plenty of men. Just know your worth and choose a deserving one.
Try asking them out. they probably think you'll reject them because they think you're out of their league.
This right here. Op I would ask you out
Ok for one you look like a model for two find a hairstyles that suites you and boom.
5' 10" can be intimidating, but you just need to put yourself out there. If you don't go to collage pick up a class or two at the local community collage. You are a catch you just need to meet the right person.
College..
Hey, do you wanna go on a date with me?
You are gorgeous. Idk why you’ve never been asked out but just let time do its thing girl. You are beautiful!
Be you... The right one will see the queen you are.
you’re quite attractive, but i’d potentially update your style. it seems a bit millennial, i’d check out different styles/outfit inspos on pinterest/tiktok
They’re too nervous to talk to a baddie 💅
You have lovely features. I am also 5’10 and dating was horrific. My advice to you is to find a more becoming hairstyle and own that height. Carry it with pride. (I married a guy 5’7 with a lot of confidence). We’ve been together since before you were born.
RJ Barrett female version
Id say grow out your hair and let it be without any heat for a while, it looks a lil damaged. A lip tint and mascara would suit you well, i think it would help your features pop!! You also seen to dress a little bland, explore other styles, you’re really pretty already :))
It could be a personality thing. You seemed shy up until pic 6 so I’m not sure if you are or not. If you are, it’s harder to meet ppl. Keep in mind that some of the guys you like may not be “good with girls” so there could be guys who like you and you don’t even know.
It could also be your environment. When I was in middle school and in my first few years of HS, probably 90% of guys wouldn’t date black girls, and prob 98-99 percent of the white guys wouldn’t. When I moved, it was way different and different races dated all the time. Idk where u live tho so🤷♂️
Lastly, guys your age are typically only focused on 1 of 3 things - school, career, or you-know-what. Know what you’re looking for, then know which pond to fish in. Pond 1 and 2 are where you find keepers, and pond 3 is where you find...flings. And note that just because they work and go to school, that doesn’t mean they’re actually focused on that.
Now that you know which pond you’re fishing in, use the right bait. If you’re fishing in 1/2, you’re fine, don’t worry. Maybe just find a hobby/hobbies you enjoy that gives you regular exercise (cycling, hiking, ultimate frisbee, flag football, basketball, swimming, weight/strength training, etc) and eat a good clean balanced diet and drink plenty of water. If you’re fishing in pond 3, holler at someone you know who does well in that pond.
Hopefully I didn’t come off rude or anything. Just trying to be honest while not coming off inappropriate.
You're good ... Just do sumn with that hair 👍
Underage
Comment section looks exactly what I thought it’d look like when a Black girl posts. Disgusting racist freaks.
Dang! Maybe some good feedback here but you’re beautiful. And you are blessed with a wonderful physic too. Count your blessings girl!
You're not ugly, it's probably your personality. You're probably loud and obnoxious
Why would you just assume that? Kind of fucked up.
you don’t know her???
So? She asked an for an opinion from people on the internet
Maybe you seem unapproachable. Alot of men are intimidated asking an attractive woman out
Well you can’t cure the stupid but I definitely would ask you out for real. Further more if we have chemistry I with your permission would take it to a relationship with a positive permanent outcome, Bobby this is for the record babe to prove that someone is willing to put himself forward on this matter 💋
Pretty
You remind me of a gorilla, crossed with a seriously bitchy bitch, crossed with a trans black dude.
Really bro? Wtf
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Edited to add: OP may be a bit taller and way younger than I would generally go for, so I really don’t care that much, but objectively she’s a fairly attractive young woman. The shit you typed is just fucking gross, dude, and very inaccurate.
Wanna go out?
You have resting bitch face bad thats probably the reason or your personality is shitty
That’s sad
Honesty is sometimes uncomfortable
True but☹️
Don’t ask questions you don’t want answered that’s an honest assessment
I agree tbh but yeah
You are fine. Stay natural as you can. If you have money go get your hair done nice in a salon. You will be fine.
Whatever the problem is, it’s not your looks. You look great, fashion model good. My question is do you look approachable?
smile more, other than that I think you look good, if our ages were closer I'd hit on you
You need longer hair!
Cute
I'd ask you out 😉
You’re lovely, but you should do something with your hair. It seems flat.
You have a great shape, but you’re very tall for a girl, a lot of guys like petite women
And how is she supposed to change her height?
She just needs to find guys that don’t care about height
That could be why she hasn’t been asked out yet but she’ll find taller guys if she is in fact tall
As a black girl and unless you meet someone that's into black girls like that your options are going to be limited especially at 5'10. .
You're going to want a man around 6'4 or taller and many shorter guys aren't going to talk to you, basically any one under 5'10" that's more than half the male population...
Men 6'+ have every option available especially if they're good looking ,have money and status like athletes so why would they pick you when they can date legit model quality women...
Looks wise I give you a 7 your slim maybe to slim for some, your face isn't unnatractive but it's plain, so thats a 6..I like using Willow Smith as an example of a 10 her face is strikingly beautiful.
Your hair needs work go to stylist find a style that works for you that relaxer isn't it and it's damaging your hair..I cut my hair the other day and got my first compliments from a woman in years so it makes a diffrence.
Your biggest issue is you have the body of a model but not the looks or refinement but at 20 you can work on that.
It really comes down to what you want. Do you want to be courted by wealthy men or mess around with Fboys with no plan.Do you want to be a wife or a play thing.Whatever you decide start positioning yourself that way...
Also men especially in your age range aren't approaching women like that most don't even know how and women have made it pretty clear they don't want to be bothered.
Any way I'm 99% certain if you dress yourself up and go sit at a bar you will get asked out before the night is up.Also I'm sure your DMs will be overflowing with proposals after this so you've been asked out now
7/10 😅 she can hook up with a gangbanger and be his baby momma thats about it
To tall for a gangbanger,she needs to get a sugar daddy who gets her hair done
Stfu
lol you like the fat negros don't you 🤣
You are so cute!
Sort that hair out and wear something slutty
Lmao, don’t 😭
this isnt instagram so i cant say such things but i will say this, your hair nappy as hell. fix it
Do you know the definition of nappy definitely not her hair
lol stop
Utilize your model height, do a cute hairstyle and makeup, try a stylish outfit that you like, you are cute just need effort in your style that’s all
Become an NBA groupie. Don’t ask me how. Most of them are over 6’ tall.
Your hair looks uncared for or heat damaged. Try to go natural. Your style is also pretty basic.
Dude bod
Says the boy who’s bitter because his anime blow up furry doll cheated on him and left him for a balloon animal
You haven't been with many women, have you?
black women are typically more muscular
All women come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes. This is most definitely not a dude bod.
yeah no fucking shit im just saying typically and genetically black women are usually more muscular. nothing wrong with it nor is it even a racial thing, its pretty much true so i get why the dude said she has a dude bod
Lol calm down
youre pretty but you prob havent been asked out bc of your height. If you can find a man who likes tall girls then itll happen. Personally your a 7.3/10. Looking good
Wanna go out 👉🙂👈
I think you look good enough to ask out. Maybe work on a smirk instead of a smile? Add some seductive to your look. Guys are pretty simple. A lot of guys are still pretty shy in our early 20’s. Maybe give some shy guys a little more obvious hints. Or just start a convo with one that seems interested and feel it out.
Change your background and fix your hair
I would take you on a date McDonald's and let you pick what ever you want on the value menu
One thing that might help is wearing something that someone can comment on basically. Like I saw in another comment that you like Taxi Driver. If you are wearing a shirt with him on it or basically letting your clothes sell your personality sort of then it’s much easier to approach you. There’s nothing wrong with what you’re wearing, but it doesn’t say much about who you are or what you like. It doesn’t have to be all graphic tees or anything but that’s just an example.
All this coming from someone who dresses very plainly, so I feel like it would be scary for me to follow my own advice here, but it could help out someone who is interested. Basically making it as easy as possible to hit on you might help.
Nice face and bod. Need to improve hair style. Try something chick
You're cute.
Take your time, you'll find someone. If you want to meet someone, if you're not in school, I'd check out the local adult school. They offer classes like pottery, guitar lessons, things like that. You'll learn something, make friends and maybe meet someone that way.
Someone said online dating .... don't do that. It's nothing but weirdos and little boys who think they're men but don't have a car.
OLD is 80% male so with that ratio you think that's the case for all the Men OLD....Many men I know are OLD and they arent broke and have cars ..I agree some may be wierd but that's not always a bad thing since you can't even quantify wierd....
It could be where you live location means alot.
Lower your standards. I have to assume you go after the guys every girl wants to be around. Also "never asked out" but ik for a fact you're not a virgin so gtfo
ok for a fact you’re not a virgin
1: no the fuck you don’t. Quit playing yourself, because blatant incel-grade bullshit like that ain’t fooling anyone else but you
2: not relevant
3: what about her pictures would even give you a dumb assumption like that?
U sound like a f@g. She's a woman and she's black who tf she foolin other than u
When your dad caught you tossing your sisters salad did you get in trouble or did he call aunt mom over and join in?
Ok incel
Weirdo
…oddly specific.
You are gorgeous just as you are, I am white and I would love to date you.
Ask her out I'm curious to see what happens.
33M I've never been asked out either lol
Black don’t crack
Y’all simpin over a troll post 😂 look at the posting account
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Lmfaooooooo uncultured swine 😂 this is Reddit you ain’t hurting anyone’s feelings
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Now I feel like I’m chatting with a bot 🤖
Clean that goddamn mirror
You look great. I don't know what group you fit in with but I've heard that dating for black women is extremely hard in part because of societal pressures. If you don't have a huge friend or family group you may not be approached by black men and white men tend to belittle black women or totally avoid them for unclear reasons. You don't need to change a thing. You're very attractive! I have a feeling you might be too good for guys your age and they don't bother because they're looking for the "easy" route. I know it's hard to believe when you're young but as you get older some things become so clear.
Never been asked out, so? have you asked out or just expect guys to do everything?
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What's your dating age range?
yeah i feel the same way, i only cold approached someone if i was dared by friends when younger or something. i would do it, but idk what to sayy
Learn makeup, fix your hair, rhinoplasty, breast augmentation.
Yikes
You should try an app like OkCupid! I'm assuming you don't really put yourself out there. You're adorable and pretty lol
Your dorky
Babe relax. The guy doesn't have a problem with it. They believe girls do. Some girls actually do. They are shallow.
You need to learn makeup tricks the ladies do. You need to work on hair and stop pulling it back. The last photo is not something that should be posted it will not get you the right kind of attention. You look plain basic. You need to get some style. I don't like to tell woman to show skin but if you want male attention than it will help you get a boyfriend just don't take it too far. Good luck
your very pretty queen
fake
I can’t believe the amount of people telling her to exercise. She’s so beautiful, and slim already. What’s really wrong with you?
They are telling her to build a booty
She does not have a small booty. She has a nice shape.
Big cap
You are to tall and guys think girls can't be with shorter guys because girls can be real shallow. That's all it is. If you wear heels which I suggest you never do you limit your choices to athletes that will put up with you.
Fuck that. I’m 5’10 and I wear heels. My husband is 6’1 and doesn’t mind when I’m taller than him because he doesn’t have fragile masculinity. In the past, I would never date anyone who had a problem with it. I’ve dated shorter guys who were cool with it too.
I replied to clarify but relax
I’m perfectly relaxed. Weird reaction.
You look like a model
Never been asked out? That’s really hard to believe. You’ve got everything that makes a girl hot
Because you still haven’t meet me 😉
Work out, change your style
The hell do you mean workout? She’s already slim! People like you give people complexes.
Squats to get some ass they probably mean
Lmao. Working out isn’t solely for fat people
I think they mean building muscle
You’re pretty
Work out, better hairstyle and hygiene, get better outfits. You are not ugly by any means but that’s just what jumped out to me as a straight male
hygiene?
She hasn’t been asked out in 20 years. Is it crazy to suggest she might have bad breath or not shower enough?
Refreshing to see this advice for a woman, usually only men get the “take a shower” and “comb your hair” nonsense tips…
Are you serious? It's possible she hasn't been asked out because people are just dumb? Why make all kinds of stupid accusations about OP?
bro i don’t believe half of what these people say …especially the girls ..it’s all for clicks..
Work on yourself and all the other things will work themselves out naturally
Exercise.
You're pretty but acknowledging attraction to someone in anything other than a platonic way is generally frowned on. It's not you, it's society
Real nice
An attractive young woman likes to have fun but knows when to be serious. You're a good friend to others. College junior. Have a great day ☀️
You look 14 that’s probably why
But she’s 5’10, I think irl that would make her look older.
I would ask you out for sure
Well, they are missing out, you seem genuine, gentle and kind
quirky
Id ask you out in a heartbeat! Your absolutely gorgeous 🥰
Probably too tall for some guys. Idk
Just don’t post the last pic anywhere and ur good
Cute, nice butt
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