It is so depressing how she acts. She has better days then suddenly she does everything right and can just think it away while everyone else chooses sadness. I used to have a very similar mindset in some parts to her to help myself, just choose happiness and i wouldn't have my problems anymore and you know what? My job has burnt every time i've tried to feel that way. They've dragged me down to some of the lowest points in my life and i can't just choose happiness anymore. She has no real obligations, when i had to same mindset i was just doing school (still hard i won't knock it but at the time it was my only focus so i was lucky) and I had a bunch of free time and could deal with random things that pop up. Now my job is killing my spirit AND i have no time for fun things to even try to fix it. When I do have free time I am so mentally burnt out that I feel exhausted anyway. It's not all bad, hopefully I will be getting something new soon but gosh it's soooo easy to talk about just being happy when that is the only task you have to do everyday... People aren't choosing to live in negativity, some of them are just pushed down to it no matter how hard they try. She's so out of touch and high and mighty