I'm in a bit of a sticky spot with my healing journey and, while I mostly trust the process and have no desire to stop this sacred work, I'd love to hear people's experiences about big changes in feelings/emotions (either about specific subjects or in general) from IFS.
I think I'm feeling a sense of stuckness, and not believing my feelings can change about a certain sticky subject.
Thanks🙏
IFS is definitely a slow down to speed up paradigm. When things feel stuck, that is a great trailhead. It can take time for those parts to fully open up tho. I've had a few parts that used being stuck as a means of attention seeking. Some habits can be hard to break.
Somatic IFS or SE type work can really help here. It can be hard to truly hold space or sit with some of these things. But that's really what these parts need to build trust and be honest, or step aside so you can connect with what's beyond that.
Also, it's really important to hold compassion free from judgement or agenda. Parts feelings are valid. We don't have to act on every one of those feelings. We do need to let them exist & work to understand them.