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by badboy_1245Not here for hookups
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Thoughts on hickeys?

Men on this subreddit (and women can also weigh in their opinions), I want to know your thoughts on hickeys. So, for context I'm a 28F and I just started dating again after ending a five year long serious relationship so I might be a bit rusty in the dating scene (online dating is a nightmare, but that's a discussion for another day). I met a very attractive and sweet guy (28M) a few days back and we went for a drive for our first meeting and some 🍃. We enjoyed talking to each other and the next day decided to meet up again. He came over to my place and one thing led to another and I somehow ended up with three huge hickeys (🙈). He did take my permission before giving me the said hickeys to which I complied in the spur of the moment. I know we're not teenagers anymore but it was hot in the moment and I was enjoying myself. Now, I want to know from other men what do you think about when you see hickeys on a woman you are meeting for the first time? Purely asking because I do want to meet up another guy and the hickeys are going to take some time to go away. Please don't be judgemental, I'm simply looking for some male perspective here.

Edit: FYI I'm not looking for anything serious and I always mention this to everyone I match with. So, we're on the same page and looking for the same things.

Edit 2: I get that it's shocking for guys to hear about a girl who is sexual and likes exploring her sexuality. For them, such girls just automatically get tagged as sluts or whores. And I'm not trying to hide anything but I guess I got my answer which is that men like to put women on a pedestal. Also, this sub is filled with absolute misogynists. Can we stop pretending that half the men commenting are not fucking around or at least wanting to fuck around? It's different for them probably because they aren't getting any. The amount of judgement is crazy. Why is it that the same lot of men always want a pure, innocent woman to exploit? To those sliding in my DMs saying they won't judge me, why don't you say what you want in the comments instead of hiding in my DMs? To that one guy who actually gave me decent advice, you're the OG. Sorry that you're getting downvoted so much. Totally agree with the "hypocritical shitbags" part which this comments section is full of.

Edit 3 (last one, hopefully): This post seems to have riled up a LOT of you. Just love stirring shit up sometimes. Kidding.

To the guys in my DMs thinking my post was an invitation for hookups- no, I am not looking for any hookups via reddit, thank you.

Also, this just goes to show how a lot of men (boys) out there are in some serious need of education. I don’t care what standards you grew up with. Women also grew up with some fucked up standards. Learn to unlearn that shit. To those men who reached out and left non-judgmental and non-slut-shaming comments/ DMs- thank you, y’all are a rare lot. And to those QUEENS who came to my defence- 🫡 love you girlies.

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