If virginity is the standard, why are incels so upset about their own virginity?
Because ego; "virgin women" are hypothetically the hardest to get with, so they get the biggest ego boost by having sex with them (they also fear being compared to previous sexual partners, so that's another plus).
Since they view sex as like obtaining trophies, the men who have "the most and best trophies" are the "winners".
So true! Actually , they’re desperately involuntarily celibate, so they aim for the group that gives smallest possible change of sex! I think they use this as an excuse to still being a virgin. “Yeah, I could’ve had sex with any woman, but I only want sex from a virgin. Not going to waste my first time on some Chad-seeking foid.” Yeah, right!
Simple it the usual… double standards. Rules for thee but not for me.
Its cause society has put that standard on people. When people look at you and respond a certain way after hearing you're a virgin they think something is wrong with you. That's why "incels" end up overcompensating.
the answer is: the incel would cheat
This is the only answer XD
What is a cock carousel? I imagine its a carousel ride but instead of horses its chicken?
It's a term that incels are pathetically obsessed with. Basically, their belief is that women live a life of fucking one guy and immediately moving on to the next or an even better one, going from one dick to another probably every day of their lives. They call this "the cock carousel." It's hilarious.
The pussy carousel exists too. why isn't that frowned upon?
Because that's not a common use term.
"Cock carousel" has been a fairly commonly used misogynistic term since before incels existed.
If I misunderstood your question the first time, then my second try would be to say that toxic masculinity has always had a very different view of guys being promiscuous vs. women.
I am aware its not common, thats why im inventing it 😎
I just think of Disco Elsyium every time I hear that phrase.
Failed skill check in the game allows you to repeat that phrase until you literally kill yourself
cock carousel
I work in higher ed where we frequently use the term “course carousel” in our planning. The term above pops into my head every time my team discusses the course carousel, and I’m pretty sure it’s just a matter of time before I say the wrong name
I pray for you when that day comes
You are close it is not chicken but dicks.
It was apart of the joke. I shouldve clarified
Meh
The incel: "nooooo you should be with me because I would never cheat! unlike the eVuL cHaD!!!!11!!!only because I'd literally be incapable of cheating though "
Would have to find someone willing to be in a committed relationship with them first, so that can't be true
How? Who fucks incels? Lol
How?
bc they want to sex like chad.
That's why, not how.
So much insecurity...
When I was 18 I was in a relationship with a Chad for 2y. He was a Capoeira teacher, fit, chiseled jaw, 6ft, porn dick and on top of that not shallow and a genuinely nice person. We shared lots of hobbies, had similar taste in music, games and movies. His family liked me, his cats loved me and yet...we simply drifted apart and we were better friends than lovers. Also sex was painful and the list of working positions was veeeery short.
After the split I met my husband, who was a university student with no money whatsoever. He was a chubby bear with beard and long hair and a virgin at 24. It took us 2y to even move in together because finances were so shitty. His dick is not 8 inches (which makes sex quite comfortable I might add). He is a Chad to me but not conventionally handsome. And I never cheated on any of these men. 🤷♀️
But yeah...keep telling yourself all women are shallow and you need a chiseled jaw and 10 inch dick and all your problems would just vanish. Human connection is complicated, buddy.
It's hard for these people to imagine some people might not cheat because, y'know, it's wrong?
They would cheat, so to make themselves feel better they assume everyone would cheat
They'll also say you're lying about your husband because fat guys who aren't conventionally attractive never fuck, never mind getting married.
It's almost like sexual and personality compatibility isn't based on jobs and inches...
It's all projection - the incels know that if they had the ability to get with anyone (that they imagine all women have) they would only pick the hottest of the hot women, and they expect women to act the same.
I honestly find that men who are more “normal” are often more attractive personally, because I don’t just go for looks. You don’t have to be “conventionally attractive” to be attractive imo.
Yeah, I loooove twinky guys but the Alpha Male TM guys don't do it for me. Most of the time. Also, I can't fit a soft 8 inch toy in me. FUCK trying to do it with the real deal that big!
100 men, all 4 ft tall? What the hell?
She followed the yellow brick road to where it turned green and the people start growing a bit taller.
This whole post made absolutely no sense to me. What is even the point this dude is trying to make?
I think his "logic" is:
Women who have had good sexual experiences with other people will cheat. (i.e. incel insecurity 101)
Women who have slept around a lot might only have slept with "bad" men.
Women who have slept with one other person might have slept with a "good" man.
Therefore you can't tell from how many men a woman has slept with whether they have had any good sexual experiences.
Therefore only virgins are "safe", you can know they haven't had any good sexual experiences.
Basically he's admitting to fetishizing inexperienced virgins because he thinks they are the only ones who will stay with him.
The flaw in this thought process is that they believe that a virgin would not be able to tell if she is having a bad sexual experience because it is her first and only one. But they absolutely can tell.
Well at least that makes some kind of sense. Thank you.
I don't think he even knows.
Incels can't trust women who date Oompa-Loompas.
Snow White and the 100 Dwarves
Right? That is a wildly specific sexual history! That I think would probably belong to a woman also around 4 ft tall or shorter.
This isn’t which woman is more likely to cheat. It’s which woman makes an incel feel more insecure.
Their obsession with huge dicks is always so suspicious to me.
I never met a person after teenaged years who was a "size queen" gay or straight.
It can be difficult to find a good position, uncomfortable, and at worst, very painful to fuck someone with a monster dong! 10 inches is too big for many.
Right. I know a couple who split for this reason alone-just sexual incompatibility because sex was so painful for her!
My husband's ex before me ghosted him and when he got in touch with her that was the reason she gave. I wasn't shocked. With great power comes great responsibility and all that... 🙃
He talks about this like *HE* wouldn't cheat (he definitely would).
Also, I love how this contradicts the meaning of Inceldom. Like if being a virgin is the standard, then why are *you* having such a hard time coming to terms with it?
Virgin women can cheat too, it's not like an impediment
and by the way, where could i find a guy like women 2 had? asking for a friend
And I know from experience that I have cheated on a boyfriend, I still had my virginity (only kissed the guy I was cheating with but hey, Incels would still think I'm a whore because they have their assumptions, oh no.)
Funny thing is, I still have had one sex partner.
Not to be proud, but i cheated a couple boyfriends when i was still a virgin
and i some incel just told me that it doesn't count because im a black woman, and black women cheats more doesn't matter if virgin or not, that what incel op was saying only applies to white and maybe a select group of asian women (japanese and korean according to him)
but what would i know, im just a woman, they clearly know more about us
Damn the 4 ft tall dudes getting mad ass and yet they still can’t get laid? Thought only 6 ft tall chads got laid?? I was lied to??
Clearly, the incel would cheat.
... 7 feet tall? 10" penis? Please keep that far the fuck away from me.
Yes because we are either 1 or 2. We’ve either had 1 dick of death or 100 tiny penises. Nothing in between. Oh and lesbian sex does not count of course.
The real question is which one would you actually stand a chance with.... And the answer is none 😂 you guys keep dreaming about this magically virgin Princess that's gonna come into your life and ask you to marry them 😂 ya gotta dream I suppose 😂😂😂
So it doesn't matter how much of a "slut" they are then? They just came to the absolutely backwards conclusion. When the correct stance would be that body count doesn't matter and it really just depends on the individual.
Also to act like they wouldn't cheat if they had the chance is disingenuous. A lot of it is just projection.
“A girl who has had one sexual partner is more likely to cheat than someone who got ran through by a town of Hobbits”- Tolkien
If we're just making assumptions, wouldn't the virgin be the most likely of all to cheat?
Curiosity of what else is out there and all…
Woman #1 has a very specific preference I mean how do you even do that? “Hey my names Kelly. I can see you’re a short king, now may I measure your penis and see your bank account info please? I would like both to be low!”
Lmfao. 7ft tall. These people cannot be real. They need to go outside. Hell even most “Chads” aren’t the size of NBA Centers
I…don’t know? I’m genuinely not following the logic on this one. All I can think when I read scenario one is that Snow White went wild lmao.
They don't actually care about the relationship or cheating, they just want a virgin women so they can feel like "real men" (toxic masculinity).
My headcanon is that someone needed an example of "unreasonable false dichotomy", and the universe supplied them with this guy.
The answer is neither because neither would ever date you in the first place. (The biggest question—How would a woman find 100 4’tall men anyway?)
Pre-Balrog Dwarrowdelf?
Woman 1 would be more likely to cheat because she still fantasizes about a real man while woman 2 has crossed that off.
You see, incel logic works in whatever way you want.
I mean, he's not wrong when he says quality > quantity when it comes to sex. At least for me personally. Though I have it on good authority skill matters a lot more than size, money or income for the lads.
And of course, communication is key. Still. Fellas, learn to use your fingers. Most ladies will appreciate it.
not woman number 1 having a gnome fetish lmao
what the fuck is this nonsense
I'm glad they said this part outloud. Instead of just hiding behind bad women's anatomy and saying a woman's vagina will fucking blow out they are admitting they don't want to be compared to prior (potentially better) partners.
Do these people not realize how much being tall sucks at 40?
7feet tall? Is she fucking a globe trotter?
Ps NEITHER thing matters at all, moron. Grow up
The woman who had quality, which you are not. And she wouldn't cheat. Her telling you that you're broken up and seeing someone else isn't cheating, she's just moving on with her life without you, even thought you feel she still owes you. She doesn't.
I both love and hate incel math.
All grading is arbitrary and subjective, so why the heck not? To me my GF is 10/10.
None because im an amazing lover duh? Nah but thats bullshit.. you can only judge a cheater for being a cheater when they cheated.
Wait why use that example if you're saying virginity is the standard lol
Which girl is a better match for me?
They think height matters sooooo much too. I don’t date people more than half a foot taller if we weren’t friends first because it felt like my mouth was being eaten when the guy was over a foot taller. Lol he was my little spoon :) (I may be 5’3 but I like being the big spoon)
Bruh coming within a gnat's ballhair of just admitting the real reason he cares about virginity
Good LORD these people.
Gee, maybe if you spent more time in real life, instead of 24/7 fantasies and venting on imaginary people and their imaginary cheating, maybe you'd have good wife. Possibly even one who started out as a virgin.
Why are incels so obsessed with cheating?
Haha his girl is banging little people compulsively in his scenario. What world do these people live in?
Don’t know why they’re arguing. They’re never going to get any woman
If my girl messed with Yao Ming, I’d be a little intimidated and confused about why she’s talking to me too 😂
They just love their little hypotheticals. Not once have I ever seen an incel provide a hypothetical that was even remotely realistic.
And yet they use them to "prove" their point.
I don't think I've ever met anyone as stupid as an incel.
7ft 10 inch dick?!?! Is she sleeping with Hagrid?
sound logic but now youre depression
This reads like one of those maths problems.
Woman 1 had 100 ex-boyfriends. Woman 2 had 1 ex-boyfriend. If both women were single, calculate the likelihood of the incel getting rejected by both and malding on .is over it
(Answer is 100% btw)
They just want a niave, inexperienced woman so that they can abuse her and she won't know any different.
7ft tall? Who's out here fucking Andre the Giant?
The math isn’t mathing