OMG why have I not connected the fact that she's a Grandma by marriage. That's it, from now on her Grandma's status gets looped into everything I post on this sub. (I call mine Abuelita because, unlike her, I'm actually Hispanic/Spanish is my first language...and Abuelaria doesn't deserve the ita!)
As a Hispanic person I hate anyone calling her abuelita. She is not Spanish, Hispanic, Latina. So please stick to MeeMaw, granny, grandma, nana, etc in English. She is NOT an abuela!
Fake-abuelita, then. I understand your rage 😤 at having a giant fraud—oh, sorry, she’s so smol—cosplaying any type of Spanish-y identity, which she can remove as easily as her street-fouled chanclas!