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(15) to (18) people in other groups said I looked the same and that stung a bit š
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Wtf is wrong with you guys? The whole reason this sub even exists is bc we do sometimes need validation from others. We are extremely social creatures. We need it to make sure we're on the right track. Not just fishing for compliments. How tf does LITERALLY everyone else get "omg you're doing so great! You look amazing keep it up!" But this guy somehow is just an insecure douche? Everyone here is insecure af. That's why this sub exists- TO HELP EACH OTHER NOT FEEL LIKE THE PIECES OF SHIT WE THINK WE ARE. Give your balls a tug. OP- you look great. It is critically important that you learn and know for yourself, but I understand. Just like you shouldn't listen to everyone telling you that you look the same, you should also not listen to these fucking degens.
This should be the top comment. People please be kind. The body changes sooner than the mind. Somewhere inside he is still that kid. For god's sake he is a kid. Just 18.
Thank you that means a lot š
I got you bro
I think the sub is more for inspiration not validation.. if they posting on this sub they already know they got āglow upā so thereās no need for us to say it or say it in a way they donāt already see it. I had a little glow up myself and even I donāt feel confident enough to post it here. Itās a glow up for me but itās not tooo drastic for other people to see it because Iām not super fit and thatās what people think mainly as glow ups. This guy looks fantastic.. but the title made it seem like he wanted more people to say it. And for what purpose?
Lol there's a difference between the "that's my glow up, I see that I've changed and I'm proud of my progress, take a look" and the "oh my god, I used to be an insecure out-of-shape guy and now I'm a ripped good-looking dude, but people keep telling me I look the same, and I need your validation because I'm still insecure" approaches.
The thing is, you can look like a total fat-ass and still be self-confident or resemble Dwyane Johnson and be insecure af. And guess what, no one likes people who are insecure or seek constant approval and validation from others.
Yea Iām not gonna endorse steroid use but you do you